FILE 477 / 21 March 2024 / 175 MIN / full

Never Sing Your Confession

Highland Heights, KentuckyListen

The town

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We are going all the way down to Kentucky... it's Highland Heights, Kentucky here... northern Kentucky, obviously, over there. This is in Campbell County. about 0:04:55

History, in brief

Town note

The area was known as the Highlands since the 1800s.

about 0:06:01

1867

The District of the Highlands was incorporated in 1867.

about 0:06:06

1914

Fort Thomas was separately incorporated from its northern area in 1914.

about 0:06:11

1927

The town got a local post office in 1927 and incorporated itself as Highland Heights that year.

about 0:06:17
All 5 history facts

Town note

The area was known as the Highlands since the 1800s.

about 0:06:01

1867

The District of the Highlands was incorporated in 1867.

about 0:06:06

1914

Fort Thomas was separately incorporated from its northern area in 1914.

about 0:06:11

1927

The town got a local post office in 1927 and incorporated itself as Highland Heights that year.

about 0:06:17

1971

Northern Kentucky State College relocated here from Park Hills in 1971 and is now Northern Kentucky University.

about 0:06:27

The figures, as told

Religious

just about the national average, 50-50

about 0:11:10

Who lives here

White 91.8% · Black 4.2% · Asian 1.1% · Hispanic 2.5%

Ethnicity can overlap race.

Crime / national average

Property crime
▼ about half the national average

about 0:18:24

Violent crime
▼ about one third of the national average

about 0:18:50

Money

Median home value$188,000
Two-bedroom rentabout $1,190
Median household income$42,929
Cost of living91

For sale

$165,000

Two-bedroom, two-bath condo, 1,066 square feet

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For sale

$72,000

Three-bedroom, two-bath house in Fort Thomas, 1,558 square feet

about 0:14:19

For sale

$263,900

Three-bedroom, two-bath house, 1,160 square feet

about 0:14:44
All figures and comparisons, as told in 2024

Property crime

"about half the national average"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2024 about 0:18:24

Violent crime

"about one third of the national average"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2024 about 0:18:50

Population

"6,896"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:10:01

Female share of the population

"55%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:10:16

Median age

"23.7"

Comparison: "almost 38 in the rest of the country". No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:10:30

Married residents

"25%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:10:45

White residents

"91.8%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:11:01

Black residents

"4.2%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:11:01

Asian residents

"1.1%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:11:01

Hispanic residents

"2.5%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:11:01

Religious share of the population

"just about the national average, 50-50"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: about the same.

As told in 2024 about 0:11:10

Largest denomination

"Catholics"

Comparison: "not Baptists as you might expect". No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:11:19

Unemployment rate

"4.4%"

Comparison: "national average under four". Direction: below.

As told in 2024 about 0:11:38

Median household income

"$42,929"

Comparison: "US average about $69,000 a year". No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:11:51

Cost of living index

"91"

Comparison: "100 is average". Direction: below.

As told in 2024 about 0:12:15

Median home cost

"$188,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:12:20

Average two-bedroom rent

"about $1,190"

Comparison: "about the national average". Direction: about the same.

As told in 2024 about 0:12:47

Two-bedroom, two-bath condo, 1,066 square feet

"$165,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:13:09

Three-bedroom, two-bath house in Fort Thomas, 1,558 square feet

"$72,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:14:19

Three-bedroom, two-bath house, 1,160 square feet

"$263,900"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:14:44

The reviews

3.7 / 5 · average of 3

5 stars

“Small but with a Fortune 500 company and a decent-sized college; neighbours talk to each other; a calm place to live.”
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3 stars

“People walk the streets, walk dogs and take children for strolls; shops and restaurants include Cracker Barrel, Kroger and Bob Evans.”
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3 stars

“Hard to judge because the reviewer has only just moved there.”
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The story

Ryan Carter Poston was born on 30 December 1982 in Fort Mitchell, Kentucky, the only son of Jay and Lisa Poston. He took Carter as his middle name out of respect for him. The family moved to the Philippines, and Ryan went to high school in Manila and Geneva before studying at Indiana University, where he completed a triple major in political science, history and geography. He followed his grandfather and his uncle to the Salmon P. Chase College of Law at Northern Kentucky University and then opened his own practice on the fifth floor of the 810 Sycamore building in downtown Cincinnati, concentrating on personal injury and car accident cases. Friends described him as gentle, nerdy and relentlessly hard-working, a man who never raised his voice and who dressed immaculately even when working late. At 29 he was six foot three and about 200 pounds. He lived in a condo in Highland Heights that belonged to his mother and stepfather, and he kept a number of guns there.

She took honours classes, earned straight A's, collected academic trophies and attended the Governor's School for the Arts for vocal music in the summer of 2008. She graduated from Paul Lawrence Dunbar High School in 2009, made the Dean's list at the University of Kentucky in 2010 and finished her psychology degree in three years. She was pretty, confident and competitive, and friends described her as dramatic about relationships. She did some modelling, sang well, and was jealous and persistent when she was rejected. She did not take break-ups well.

He sent a friend request and she accepted it and messaged him first, asking how she knew him and telling him he was gorgeous. They met in person at a Lexington bar on her twentieth birthday, 8 April 2011, and began a relationship that ran hot and cold for the next eighteen months. She spent Thanksgiving 2011 with his family and was given a Michael Kors purse by his mother and stepfather that Christmas. She kept a key to his condo, left toothpaste and moisturisers on his counter, bought a shower curtain and matching bedroom curtains, and they took in a kitten together.

They also broke up repeatedly. When they were apart she turned up at his condo and at his law office unannounced and refused to leave. One night in 2012 he went to stay with his father because she would not go, and she sent him hundreds of texts. He told his step-cousin the situation was getting to restraining-order level. A co-worker said she sometimes called him 50 to 100 times a day, and that when he would not answer his mobile she rang the office reception repeatedly. When he blocked her number in April 2012 she got another phone with a Nashville area code and called him pretending to be a client; he recognised her voice, hung up, and then took her back when she called again. She hacked into his Facebook account to monitor his messages and block women she did not like, and she searched online for a woman he had friended in January 2012. His father and stepfather both told him repeatedly that the girl needed to go, but to be kind about it, and he was too well mannered to throw her out.

On 2 October 2012 Ryan took her to a gun range to teach her how to shoot. She texted a friend that part of her wanted to turn round and shoot him, and told another friend that at the range she wanted to shoot him, kill him and pretend it was an accident.

He had just settled the lawsuit with his former law partner and was in a good mood. She called her mother, who drove 80 miles to the condo at four in the morning and slept on the couch.

Her mother filled the car with petrol, bought her aspirin and told her to go to the emergency room if she felt ill again, then left to visit family in Ohio. Ryan, meanwhile, was at work telling colleagues he had plans with friends that night. In fact he was meeting Audrey Boltz for drinks and pool at 9.30 p.m. At about 8.30 that evening the couple in the condo below, Vernon and Doris West, came home and heard a woman weeping on Ryan's deck. Doris put the time at about 8.45 or 8.50. Moments later they heard two noises like fireworks, then four more loud bangs and something falling to the floor. They heard no argument, no screaming and no fighting. At 8.54 she did, opening with the words, I killed my boyfriend in self-defence. She told the operator the gun was on the bookshelf, gave her name and his, and said she was standing about three feet from his dead body. Asked whether he was definitely dead, she said he was completely dead.

Police found Ryan on the dining room floor with six gunshot wounds, two to the head, one under the arm and three to the torso, all fired from his own .380 handgun. Nothing in the condo was knocked over and a prescription pill bottle stood upright on the table beside him. Four scientists from the Kentucky State Police forensics lab matched the bullets to the gun and found gunshot residue on her hands, and a bloodstain expert concluded that Ryan was sitting at the dining room table when the first shot was fired. The shots had been fired from between six and 30 inches away, most of them from under two feet. She had no marks, no torn clothes and no injuries.

In interview she gave a rambling account. She said Ryan had been screaming at her, had thrown her around the room, had mocked her family and called her a hillbilly, and that her love had turned to hate. She said she shot him, then shot him again because she could not stand to watch him twitch. Between interviews, alone in the room, she danced, hummed and sang Amazing Grace, then sang, I did it, I did it, I can't believe I did it.

Ryan's family said the ruling was a wound that would not heal, but Jay Poston said he did not blame the judge.

At the retrial the prosecution again relied on her own words, her 911 call, her interrogation and her text messages. Her defence argued that she had been sexually and physically abused, that she had never had an orgasm with him, and that the two were deeply flawed people in an unhealthy relationship. A psychologist said she had borderline personality disorder and complex PTSD but knew what she was doing when she fired.

The case

Murder of Ryan Poston

Victims

Ryan Carter Poston (29). Cincinnati personal injury attorney, born in Fort Mitchell, Kentucky; shot six times in his dining room

Accused and outcomes

As told in the episode, on 21 March 2024.

Accused

Outcome

Other people

Jay Poston. Ryan's father
Lisa Poston. Ryan's mother
Audrey Boltz. 2012 Miss Ohio, with whom Ryan had a date planned for the night of the shooting
Lauren. Ryan's ex-girlfriend, of whom was jealous
Bill Birkenhauer. Highland Heights police chief
Donna Dulley. cellmate who testified that drew a diagram of the room and described the shooting
Carissa Carlyle. friend and Ryan's step-cousin, who introduced them
Brittany Young. notary who admitted forging all but three of 122 signatures on a change of venue petition

The timeline

  1. December 30, 1982 Ryan Carter Poston is bornabout 0:20:24
  2. the summer of 2008 attends the Governor's School for the Arts for vocal musicabout 0:38:54
  3. 2009 graduates from Paul Lawrence Dunbar High School in Lexington (Paul Lawrence Dunbar High School)about 0:39:35
  4. 2010 makes the Dean's list at the University of Kentucky (University of Kentucky)about 0:41:55
  5. 2011 graduates in three years with a psychology degree (University of Kentucky)about 0:41:58
  6. 2011 Ryan and Lauren break up after about a year and a halfabout 0:35:47
  7. 2011 His step-cousin shows him Facebook picture and he sends her a friend requestabout 0:36:04
  8. April 8, 2011 They meet in person at a Lexington bar on twentieth birthdayabout 2:29:22
  9. Thanksgiving 2011 spends Thanksgiving with Ryan's family (Poston family home)about 0:46:48
  10. Christmas 2011 Ryan's mother and stepfather give a Michael Kors purse (Poston family home)about 0:47:01
  11. January 2012 researches a woman Ryan friends on Facebookabout 1:02:06
  12. April 9, 2012 Ryan blocks phone numberabout 0:54:57
  13. April 30, 2012 calls from a Nashville number posing as a client and they get back togetherabout 0:55:06
  14. August 2012 Ryan turns up at his father's house with his laptop and clothes because will not leave his condo (Poston family home)about 0:50:07
  15. October 2, 2012 Ryan takes to a gun range to teach her to shootabout 1:03:39
  16. October 11, 2012 They watch the vice-presidential debate at his parents' house; he says he cannot see her that weekend (Poston family home)about 1:12:30
  17. October 12, 2012, 4 a.m. calls her mother, who drives 80 miles to the condo and sleeps on the couch (Poston condo)about 1:16:32
  18. October 12, 2012 and her mother spend the day shopping and eating at Bob Evans; her mother fills her petrol tank and leaves (Bob Evans)about 1:17:20
  19. October 12, 2012, about 8:30 p.m. The Wests, who live below, arrive home and hear a woman weeping on Ryan's deck (Poston condo)about 1:22:03
  20. October 12, 2012, about 8:50 p.m. The Wests hear two noises like fireworks, then four more bangs and something falling (Poston condo)about 1:22:27
  21. October 12, 2012, 8:50 p.m. calls her mother, hystericalabout 1:24:09
  22. October 12, 2012, 8:54 p.m. calls 911 and says she killed her boyfriend in self-defence (Poston condo)about 1:24:39
  23. October 12, 2012 Police find Ryan dead on the dining room floor, shot six times with his own .380 (Poston condo)about 1:27:17

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