FILE 270 / 7 April 2022 / 165 MIN / full

The Murder Parrot Speaks

Sand Lake, MichiganListen

The town

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it's in Newego county ... the actual place is in two different counties, but this took place in Neuego County about 0:05:54

History, in brief

Town note

It began as a place people travelled through in the 1800s to fish in Sand Lake, with property owners renting boats and fishing supplies and running rooming houses.

about 0:07:12

1872

Charles Adam bought an old farm rooming house in the northeast corner of the lake and built a hotel in 1872, the Sand Lake Hotel.

about 0:08:10

Town note

New owners renamed it the North Shore Hotel in the 1880s and little has changed since.

about 0:08:25
All 5 history facts

Town note

It began as a place people travelled through in the 1800s to fish in Sand Lake, with property owners renting boats and fishing supplies and running rooming houses.

about 0:07:12

1872

Charles Adam bought an old farm rooming house in the northeast corner of the lake and built a hotel in 1872, the Sand Lake Hotel.

about 0:08:10

Town note

New owners renamed it the North Shore Hotel in the 1880s and little has changed since.

about 0:08:25

Town note

The population has stayed completely steady for about 150 years.

about 0:08:40

The figures, as told

Religious

55%

Biggest faith: Jewish residents, 0.2%

about 0:14:09

Who lives here

White 94% · Black 0.0% · Asian 0.0% · Hispanic 5.4%

Ethnicity can overlap race.

Crime / national average

Property crime
▲ about ten to fifteen percent high

about 0:24:06

Violent crime
▼ less than one third of the national average

about 0:24:06

Violent crime
▼ about a quarter of the national average

about 0:24:18

Money

Median home value$214,700
Two-bedroom rentabout $932
Median household income$34,444
Cost of living100

For sale

$89,900

Two-bedroom, one-bath house, 920 square feet

about 0:17:58

For sale

$200,000

Four-bedroom, two-bath house, 1,620 square feet

about 0:18:35
All figures and comparisons, as told in 2022

Property crime

"about ten to fifteen percent high"

Direction: above.

As told in 2022 about 0:24:06

Violent crime

"less than one third of the national average"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2022 about 0:24:06

Violent crime

"about a quarter of the national average"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2022 about 0:24:18

Female share of population

"55%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2022 about 0:13:01

Median age

"34"

Comparison: "lower than normal". Direction: below.

As told in 2022 about 0:13:13

Married residents

"51%"

Comparison: "about normal". Direction: about the same.

As told in 2022 about 0:13:36

White residents

"94%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2022 about 0:13:44

Black residents

"0.0%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2022 about 0:13:49

Asian residents

"0.0%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2022 about 0:13:59

Hispanic residents

"5.4%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2022 about 0:13:59

Religious residents

"55%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2022 about 0:14:09

Jewish residents

"0.2%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2022 about 0:14:39

Unemployment rate

"under 5%"

Comparison: "a little above the national average". Direction: above.

As told in 2022 about 0:15:05

Median household income

"$34,444"

Comparison: "about $20,000 shy of the national average". No direction stated.

As told in 2022 about 0:15:14

Cost of living index

"100"

Comparison: "overall figure". No direction stated.

As told in 2022 about 0:15:26

Cost of living index here

"85"

No direction stated.

As told in 2022 about 0:15:31

Median home cost

"$214,700"

Comparison: "low compared with the rest of the country". Direction: below.

As told in 2022 about 0:15:35

Average two-bedroom rent

"about $932"

Comparison: "lower than the national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2022 about 0:16:06

RV in a trailer park, 1,200 square feet

"$49,900"

No direction stated.

As told in 2022 about 0:16:56

Two-bedroom, one-bath house, 920 square feet

"$89,900"

No direction stated.

As told in 2022 about 0:17:58

Four-bedroom, two-bath house, 1,620 square feet

"$200,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2022 about 0:18:35

The reviews

3.5 / 5 · average of 4

5 stars

“A good community foundation where everyone knows everyone, it is not busy, life is slow-paced, and it is a great place to live out in the country.”
about 0:08:53

4 stars

“Transport is pretty safe and accidents rarely back up traffic, though walking can be difficult because of the steady flow of cars.”
about 0:09:37

3 stars

“There is only one laundromat and it is questionable, which is the only thing the reviewer would worry about.”
about 0:10:20

2 stars

“It is very difficult to find a job around here without special connections to someone.”
about 0:12:38

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The story

Sand Lake is a small town in Newaygo County in western Michigan, about half an hour from Grand Rapids and two hours forty minutes from Detroit. Their household consisted of the couple, a dog and Bud, an 18-year-old African grey parrot that Marty had kept after his first divorce.

Marty had lived in Michigan all his life and grew up around Grand Rapids. In 1995 he was badly hurt in a car accident. He was in a coma for more than a month and suffered a traumatic brain injury; the whole left side of his body, hip, leg and arm, was shattered. He never fully recovered. For a time he could not remember his first marriage or the births of his children. He had been a keen hunter and fisherman and still spent as much time outdoors as he could.

She gambled heavily. In 2010 she lost $75,000 at local casinos alone, more than the couple earned in a year, and she also bought $50 to $100 worth of lottery tickets three or four times a week at local petrol stations. She ran up credit card and medical debts and kept them from Marty. By April 2015 the house was in foreclosure. The mortgage was $700 a month and the couple still owed $48,000 on the house. Marty, meanwhile, had hernia surgery, described in the episode as 31 April 2015, and was recovering slowly.

A text went to her mother at 11.40 p.m. on 11 May, and her mother replied at 3.28 a.m. Between 3.32 and 3.35 a.m. the phone's browser visited Ruger safety pages, including a firearms course, and at 4.48 a.m. she texted her mother 'love you sorry'. Nine seconds later the phone opened a page about Ruger New Model Single Six single-action revolvers. There was no further activity after 4.55 a.m. Connie Ream lived across the street and usually spoke to the couple every day. At about 7.30 a.m. that morning, as she left for work, Connie heard two shots, but shooting is common in the woods there and she thought nothing of it. She went back that afternoon and again the next morning. On 13 May, at about 3.30 p.m., she found the door unlocked, let herself in and found the living room ransacked. Marty lay in a pool of blood in the bedroom, in his underwear, shot five times, including once in the back and a defensive wound to his forearm. Connie ran outside and found firefighters finishing at a garage fire three houses down. They went back in with her, then withdrew and called the police.

She was confused and combative and had to be restrained and strapped to a stretcher. At the hospital she kept asking for Marty and said she did not know what had happened. She had two bullet wounds on the right side of her skull near the ear. Her neurosurgeon, Dr Hayden Boyce, said the bullet crossed an area of the brain not vital to life, was non-lethal, appeared several hours old and might not even have caused loss of consciousness. She was able to walk and move about.

Marty's children broke into the house before police searched it, using a credit card to pop a lock. The children also took $1,425 in cash from the safe, $225 marked 'mount' and $1,200 marked 'wave runner', and later admitted it, saying they had used it for the funeral. Police found a .22 Ruger revolver, a pillow with holes shot through it, shell casings and an unfired cartridge. Ballistics could neither match nor exclude the gun. They found the revolver under the love seat only after Marty's cousin Fran Falin, a psychic, told a trooper to look there; she also said the couple's right hands would matter, and Marty was holding a clump of hair in his right hand. Falin was cleared; she had an alibi with her daughter.

Bud the parrot went to Marty's ex-wife, Christina Keller, about two weeks after the murder. She said he began repeating, in Marty's voice, 'don't fucking shoot', and several times a week replayed an argument between a man and a woman before the same words. A video of the bird was given to a television station. A parrot expert, Doreen Plotkowski of Casa La Parrot in Grand Rapids, said she heard the bird mimicking an argument and the phrase. The prosecutor, Robert Springstead, said the bird had brought the case attention but that he would not rely on it as evidence, and that there is no legal precedent in Michigan for a parrot's statements; a 1993 California judge had refused similar evidence.

In July 2016 her lawyer asked for a mental examination and she was found competent. The prosecution relied on the phone records, the financial cover-up and DNA; the defence argued the physical evidence was inconclusive, that the gun could not be matched to the bullets, and that the state had shown 'smoking mirrors'.

On 23 December 2020 the Michigan Supreme Court denied her application, and the motion to remand was denied. Bud, meanwhile, kept talking.

The case

Murder of Martin 'Marty' Durham

Victims

Martin 'Marty' Durham (45). disabled since a 1995 car accident; shot five times in his bedroom

Accused and outcomes

As told in the episode, on 7 April 2022.

Accused

Outcome

Other people

Connie Ream. neighbour across the street who found the bodies
Bud. the couple's 18-year-old African grey parrot, which repeats 'don't fucking shoot' in Marty's voice
Christina Keller. Marty's ex-wife, who took Bud after the murder
Lillian Durham. Marty's mother
Charles Durham. Marty's father, who said the recovered Ruger was his
Jessica. Marty's daughter
Jason. Marty's son
Dan Durham. Marty's brother
Fran Falin. Marty's cousin, a psychic who told police to look under the love seat
Robert Springstead. Newaygo County prosecutor
Tina Christie. neighbour and close friend of the Durhams
Gary Wilson. sergeant who checked pulse and found her alive
David Johnson. lieutenant who helped collect evidence
Dr Hayden Boyce. neurosurgeon who treated
Jeff Hoffman. Michigan State Police computer specialist
Bob Norman. ex-husband, one of the letter recipients
Jean Waringa. mother
Laura. daughter
Richard McCambridge. cousin who asked police for the bullet that killed Marty

The timeline

  1. 1995 Marty Durham is badly injured in a car accident, spends over a month in a coma and suffers a traumatic brain injuryabout 0:33:51
  2. after the accident Marty meets , who helps him recoverabout 0:34:17
  3. 2010 starts receiving $3,153 a month as Marty's paid caregiver; he gets $1,100 a month in disabilityabout 0:49:05
  4. 2010 loses $75,000 at local casinos in one year, more than the couple earnabout 0:54:01
  5. 2012 On a trip to Montana, stops at casinos and pumps hundred-dollar bills into slot machines without Marty seeingabout 0:52:47
  6. six or seven months before May 2015 Marty builds a deck on the back of the house himself (Durham house)about 1:07:32
  7. a few months later Marty builds a man cave for his hunting mounts as an addition to the garage (Durham house)about 1:07:55
  8. April 2015 The Durhams' home is in foreclosure (Durham house)about 0:57:54
  9. April 28, 2015 Foreclosure papers are posted on the front door; takes them down without telling Marty (Durham house)about 1:01:44
  10. April 31, 2015 Marty has hernia surgery and recovers slowlyabout 1:09:05
  11. early May 2015 develops bronchitis, fights the insurance company over x-rays and stops taking her depression medicationabout 1:04:55
  12. May 11, 2015, 11.40 p.m. A text message is sent from phone to her mother (Durham house)about 1:55:13
  13. May 12, 2015, 3.28 a.m. Her mother replies to the text (Durham house)about 1:55:22
  14. May 12, 2015, 3.32 to 3.35 a.m. phone visits Ruger safety pages and a firearms course (Durham house)about 1:55:40
  15. May 12, 2015, 4.48 a.m. She texts her mother 'love you sorry', then opens a page on Ruger New Model Single Six revolvers (Durham house)about 1:56:24
  16. May 12, 2015, about 7.30 a.m. Connie Ream hears two shots as she leaves for work (Durham house)about 1:10:18
  17. May 12, 2015 Connie knocks and gets no answer, though the dog is barking inside (Durham house)about 0:25:48
  18. May 13, 2015, about 3.30 p.m. Connie finds the door unlocked and discovers Marty dead and under a blanket in the bedroom (Durham house)about 1:11:23

Last meals

  • Martin and . half-eaten bowl of spaghetti and garlic toast left on the kitchen table when the bodies were found, May 2015about 1:13:45

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