FILE 203 / 24 December 2020 / 135 MIN / full

Love Thy Neighbor

Hampton, New HampshireListen

The town

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"We're going to Hampton, New Hampshire... it's in the southeast corner of the state"; "this is in Rockingham County" about 0:05:14

History, in brief

Town note

First called the plantation of Winnacunnet, a name so awkward the hosts joke about it.

about 0:07:24

Town note

Hampton was one of the four original New Hampshire towns chartered by the General Court of Massachusetts.

about 0:07:59

Town note

Winnacunnet is an Algonquin Abenaki word meaning pleasant pines, and is the name of the town's high school.

about 0:08:32

1638

Settled in 1638 by a group of parishioners led by Oxford University graduate Reverend Stephen Bachiler, who had preached in Hampton, England.

about 0:09:18
All 10 history facts

Town note

First called the plantation of Winnacunnet, a name so awkward the hosts joke about it.

about 0:07:24

Town note

Hampton was one of the four original New Hampshire towns chartered by the General Court of Massachusetts.

about 0:07:59

Town note

Winnacunnet is an Algonquin Abenaki word meaning pleasant pines, and is the name of the town's high school.

about 0:08:32

1638

Settled in 1638 by a group of parishioners led by Oxford University graduate Reverend Stephen Bachiler, who had preached in Hampton, England.

about 0:09:18

1679

In 1679 Bachiler's son-in-law Christopher Hussey was appointed by King Charles II to govern the province of New Hampshire.

about 0:09:48

1850

A railroad was built in 1850, followed by trolley lines with Exeter, which helped the ocean front become a popular resort for people from Boston.

about 0:10:02

Town note

The population stayed around 1,200 for about a hundred years, until the mid 1900s.

about 0:14:52

Town note

Wrestling referee Bill Alfonso, of ECW, is from Hampton.

about 0:10:34

The figures, as told

Religious

39%

Biggest faith: Catholic, 29%

about 0:18:00

Who lives here

White 94.2% · Black 0.1% · Asian 3% · Hispanic 0.8%

Ethnicity can overlap race.

Crime / national average

Property crime
▼ about one third

about 0:27:36

Violent crime
▲ a little bit over half

about 0:27:49

Money

Median home value$373,900
Two-bedroom rentabout $1,870 a month
Median household income$78,706
Cost of living121

For sale

$269,900

Three-bedroom, two-bath, 1,456 sq ft house

about 0:20:00

For sale

$489,000

Four-bedroom, two-bath, 1,952 sq ft house

about 0:20:00

For sale

$2,053,000

Four-bedroom, three-bath, 2,040 sq ft beach house

about 0:20:44
All figures and comparisons, as told in 2020

Property crime

"about one third"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2020 about 0:27:36

Violent crime

"a little bit over half"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: above.

As told in 2020 about 0:27:49

Population

"15,322"

Comparison: "up 25% since 1990". Direction: above.

As told in 2020 about 0:15:13

Sex

"more females than males"

No direction stated.

As told in 2020 about 0:15:21

Median age

"50.4"

Comparison: "about 13 years older than the national average". Direction: above.

As told in 2020 about 0:15:21

Married population

"60%"

Comparison: "50-50 is the normal". No direction stated.

As told in 2020 about 0:15:46

Jewish

"almost 0.3%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2020 about 0:18:16

Unemployment rate

"low"

Direction: below.

As told in 2020 about 0:18:29

Median household income

"$78,706"

Comparison: "$57,000 national". No direction stated.

As told in 2020 about 0:18:34

Cost of living

"121"

Comparison: "100 is the average for the rest of the US". Direction: above.

As told in 2020 about 0:18:51

Housing index

"162"

Comparison: "100 is the average". Direction: above.

As told in 2020 about 0:18:53

Median home cost

"$373,900"

No direction stated.

As told in 2020 about 0:18:53

Homes worth less than $200,000

"about 10%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2020 about 0:19:04

Average two-bedroom rental

"about $1,870 a month"

No direction stated.

As told in 2020 about 0:19:28

Three-bedroom, two-bath, 1,456 sq ft house

"$269,900"

No direction stated.

As told in 2020 about 0:20:00

Four-bedroom, two-bath, 1,952 sq ft house

"$489,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2020 about 0:20:00

Four-bedroom, three-bath, 2,040 sq ft beach house

"$2,053,000"

Comparison: "about $1.5 million more than the same house off the beach". Direction: above.

As told in 2020 about 0:20:44

The reviews

3.0 / 5 · average of 4

3 stars

“Nice in winter, especially inland or near North Beach, but tourists from Massachusetts destroy the quality of life all summer; the beach is overrated, trashy, crowded and noisy, with young men cruising and blasting rap music.”
about 0:11:06

3 stars

“Quiet for the most part, though busy in summer because of the long beach; would like to see more diversity and a more robust nightlife.”
about 0:12:45

3 stars

“Great local food places, beautiful scenery, lots of recreational places, fields, safe neighbourhoods, good schools and a fun place in summer.”
about 0:13:17

3 stars

“It does not seem to be very prevalent around here, with no punctuation and no explanation of what is meant.”
about 0:14:02

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The story

Hampton, New Hampshire, lies in the south-east corner of the state, about fifty minutes from Boston and thirty-five from Manchester, with a population of just over fifteen thousand and a reputation as a quiet beach town. In the summer of 1988 it became the setting for a murder that grew out of a grudge more than a decade old.

Robert Cushing Sr. was born in 1925. He served as a marine in the Second World War, taught maths in Amesbury, Massachusetts, and in elementary schools in Seabrook, then retired into real estate, where he was twice his company's salesman of the year and served as a director of the local board of realtors. He and his wife Marie had seven children. The eldest, Robert Jr., known as Renny, was a political activist in the anti-nuclear movement, a member of the Granite State Alliance and a founder of the Anti-Seabrook Clamshell Alliance; he later became a state legislator.

At fifteen he accidentally shot and killed a friend while messing about with a gun. Shortly afterwards he held up the Salisbury diner with a gun and spent a year in reform school. In his mid-twenties he joined the Hampton police department. The background check came back clean because the name was new. He collected commendations, one for helping catch the man who robbed a Hampton Falls gun shop in the 1970s and one in April 1986 for helping catch a man after the attempted murder of a police officer. His first wife, Beverly, later said that during their marriage he often held a gun to her head and threatened her with a hunting knife.

The trouble with Cushing began in 1975. A car crash in front of Cushing's house killed two teenagers, and Cushing objected to the number of photographs the police were taking of the scene. A neighbour, Ann Johnson, then seventy-one, watched the argument from across the street. Within a year there was a second incident. People signed it, the petition was handed in, and nothing came of it.

They married quickly. He gave her what she later called an ultimatum, my son or him, and she handed the boy to her first husband, Raymond McDaniels, and stopped seeing him. A wooden fence separated the two yards.

On the evening of June 1, 1988, Marie Cushing was watching a Celtics game on television and her husband was in the kitchen with a beer and the newspaper after an afternoon of planting flowers. At about ten o'clock there was a knock at the door. Cushing opened it and two shots came from a sawed-off double-barrel shotgun. Marie later said she heard two shots, saw red lights and watched her husband go up into the air and fall backwards; she saw flames from the gun and his stomach ripped apart and knew she had to get him to a hospital. Neighbours heard the blasts. One couple, Leslie and Harry Bobalas, and their daughter, saw a man in his twenties running across the street; Leslie had noticed a man in his twenties in the Cushings' driveway shortly before the shots.

The investigation went nowhere for six weeks. Cushing had no enemies. Detectives wondered about a real estate deal, an affair, or someone angry at his son's political activism. No weapon was found. He said he could not look at Cushing any more, that the grudge from 1975 still burned. He told the boy he had stolen a confiscated sawed-off shotgun from police evidence, walked over and shot him. He dressed in black, she dressed as a young man in karate gear with her hair pulled back and stood guard in the driveway with a karate staff. They disposed of the shotgun and it was never found.

The base said it had no jurisdiction. He said he had done it because he was still angry about 1975, because he resented Renny Cushing's anti-nuclear campaigning, and because he had watched Cushing succeed while he looked on from his window.

His lawyer, Mark Sisti, said he had been drinking heavily and had taken Xanax and Halcion and was incoherent, a zombie. After a two-and-a-half-day hearing the judge ruled the statements voluntary and admissible. Then the public defenders found two letters. The lawyers resigned rather than represent a client who had lied to them, and new counsel had to be found.

New Hampshire's insanity law is unusual.

In 2003 she gave an interview, sought a pardon on the ground that she had been a battered wife, and spoke of reconnecting with the son she had given away, Ray McDaniels Jr., who was living in Arizona with four children.

The case

Murder of Robert Cushing Sr.

Victims

Robert Cushing Sr. (63). World War II marine, retired maths teacher and real estate agent, father of seven

Accused and outcomes

As told in the episode, on 24 December 2020.

Accused

Accused

Outcome

Other people

Marie Cushing. Cushing's wife, in the house when he was shot
Beverly. first wife, who said he often held a gun to her head
Raymond McDaniels. first husband, who took back their son
Colin Forbes. New Hampshire State Police officer who took his statement
Mark Sisti. defence lawyer
Leslie Bobalas. neighbour who saw a man in his twenties in the Cushings' driveway
Harry Bobalas. her husband, who saw a man running across the street after the shots
Matt Cassady. neighbour and apartment manager, described as a quiet man
Jean Shaheen. New Hampshire governor who did not pardon

The timeline

  1. 1925 Robert Cushing Sr. is born.about 0:48:30
  2. shortly afterwards He holds up the Salisbury diner with a gun. (Salisbury diner)about 0:38:47
  3. shortly afterwards He spends a year in reform school.about 0:39:14
  4. before he turns 18 He changes his name from Robert Randall to .about 0:40:23
  5. his mid-twenties He joins the Hampton police department; the background check is clean because of the name change. (Hampton Police Department)about 0:42:06
  6. He marries Beverly and has a son, Robert Jr., and two daughters, before they divorce.about 0:43:38
  7. 1975 Cushing starts a petition for an investigation into conduct; it goes nowhere.about 0:59:43
  8. 1977 divorces his first wife.about 1:46:38
  9. 1980 meets and quickly marries .about 0:30:38
  10. 1980 After ultimatum, gives her son to her first husband, Raymond McDaniels, and stops seeing him.about 0:31:34
  11. right after the 1980 wedding rents the house directly behind Cushing's. ( rented house)about 1:01:23
  12. April 1986 helps capture a man after the attempted murder of a police officer and receives a commendation.about 0:46:17
  13. June 1, 1988 At about 10 p.m., Cushing is shot twice at his front door with a sawed-off double-barrel shotgun. (Cushing house)about 1:06:48

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