FILE 415 / 17 August 2023 / 178 MIN / full

Dirty Desires, Killer Consequences

Columbia, IllinoisListen

The town

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This is in southwestern Illinois, like extreme southwestern Illinois. It's a suburb of St. Louis... This is in Monroe County. about 0:05:09

History, in brief

1859

Incorporated in 1859 as a small farming settlement.

about 0:06:49

Town note

Occupied by various Native Americans for 12,000 years.

about 0:06:55

Town note

The land beside the Mississippi River was fertile, which drew settlers.

about 0:07:06

Town note

Germans arrived in covered wagons from the eastern states, and the town became known as a German haven.

about 0:07:21
All 4 history facts

1859

Incorporated in 1859 as a small farming settlement.

about 0:06:49

Town note

Occupied by various Native Americans for 12,000 years.

about 0:06:55

Town note

The land beside the Mississippi River was fertile, which drew settlers.

about 0:07:06

Town note

Germans arrived in covered wagons from the eastern states, and the town became known as a German haven.

about 0:07:21

The figures, as told

Religious

65%

Biggest faith: Catholic, 28.4%

about 0:13:12

Who lives here

White 95.5% · Black 0.6% · Asian 1.5% · Hispanic 1.9%

Ethnicity can overlap race.

Crime / national average

Property crime
▼ about half the national average

about 0:20:22

Violent crime
▼ about one-third of the national average

about 0:20:29

Money

Median home value$267,600
Two-bedroom rent$950 a month
Median household income$65,286
Cost of livingpretty close to the national average

For sale

$219,900

Three-bedroom, two-bath house, 1,571 square feet, built 1960

about 0:15:25

For sale

$625,000

Four-bedroom, five-bath house, 5,150 square feet, 2.56 acres, built 2001

about 0:17:16
All figures and comparisons, as told in 2023

Property crime

"about half the national average"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2023 about 0:20:22

Violent crime

"about one-third of the national average"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2023 about 0:20:29

Population

"11,090"

No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:11:52

Female

"52%"

Comparison: "more females than males". No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:11:55

Median age

"40.3"

Comparison: "national average". No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:12:01

Unemployment rate

"a little bit lower than the national average"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2023 about 0:13:43

Median household income

"$65,286"

Comparison: "higher than the national average". Direction: above.

As told in 2023 about 0:13:58

Cost of living

"pretty close to the national average"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: about the same.

As told in 2023 about 0:14:02

Median home cost

"$267,600"

Comparison: "lower than the national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2023 about 0:14:04

Average two-bedroom rental

"$950 a month"

No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:14:35

1.2 acre dirt lot

"$110,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:15:20

Three-bedroom, two-bath house, 1,571 square feet, built 1960

"$219,900"

No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:15:25

Four-bedroom, five-bath house, 5,150 square feet, 2.56 acres, built 2001

"$625,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:17:16

The reviews

4.0 / 5 · average of 5

5 stars

“Lived there for 15 years; safe, good schools, mostly friendly people, close to South County and the best kept secret in the region.”
about 0:07:55

5 stars

“Not raised in Columbia but considers it her hometown; an all-American city where neighbours help neighbours and everyone is a fiend, apparently meaning friend.”
about 0:08:11

3 stars

“Too safe, which provides people with a false sense of security.”
about 0:09:26

4 stars

“Satisfied needs do not motivate; the eagle lands at midnight.”
about 0:10:19

3 stars

“Lives in an apartment that allows pets; Concept Realty owns most of the rentals, no dogs, they overprice and the writer feels very isolated.”
about 0:10:47

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The story

Columbia is a small city in Monroe County in the extreme south-west of Illinois, a suburb about twenty minutes from St Louis, Missouri, and the episode presents it as a safe, family-oriented place. It was incorporated in 1859 as a small farming settlement, on land beside the Mississippi that had been occupied by Native Americans for twelve thousand years, and it grew as a German haven after immigrants arrived in covered wagons from the eastern states. The episode gives its population as 11,090 and describes property and violent crime as running at about half and about one-third of the national average respectively.

He grew up in a church where members spoke in tongues, and he was remembered as the quietest and gentlest of the Coleman boys. He joined the Marine Corps after high school and trained as a canine military policeman. In 1997, at a canine training seminar at Lackland Air Force Base in San Antonio, Texas, he met Sherry Wece, an Air Force military policeman from the St Petersburg area of Florida. Three months later he brought her home unannounced, telling his parents he was driving her to Chicago. He did not come back that night. The next morning he telephoned his father to say that they had married. Sherry was pregnant, and their son Garrett was born in 1998; Gavin followed in 2000. Sherry left the Air Force to become a stay-at-home mother.

The family bought a three-bedroom house at Robert Drive in Columbia, and neighbours described them as the perfect American family. He took out a $250,000 life insurance policy in 2006 naming Sherry as the only beneficiary.

He later wrote on his computer that November 5, 2008, was the day Tara changed his life. Sherry found out. She refused to divorce him.

In January 2009 a hand-delivered note appeared in the family mailbox, and on April 27, 2009, another note arrived, calling itself the last warning. The police gave the house extra patrols. On April 28 he drank heavily in front of neighbours and told Sherry to get off her arse and fetch her own drink, something they had never heard him say.

In the early hours of May 5, 2009, between three and five o'clock, Sherry, Garrett and Gavin were strangled with a ligature in their home. Sherry was found naked and face down on her bed, already in rigor mortis, with two black eyes from fighting her attacker. Garrett, who was eleven, was in his bed under a white sheet marked with a red spray-painted circle, and nine-year-old Gavin was face down near the wall of his room, with spray paint on his sheets. A clump of his mother's hair was caught in the crook of Gavin's arm. Red spray-painted messages covered the walls, including you have paid, I saw you leave, fuck you, I'm always watching, and punished, you've been punished. The pathologist, Dr Raj Nanduri, put the time of death between three and five in the morning and gave the cause for all three as ligature strangulation.

On the way home he telephoned his neighbour, Detective Justin Barlow, and asked him to check on his wife because she would not wake up. Cell phone records showed that he drove past the exit for his house, went north, made another call and turned around. Barlow went into the house and found the three bodies. In his interview at the Columbia Police Department he asked for a blanket because he was cold, although the room was not cold, and kept it wrapped around his arms to cover scratches. He showed no curiosity about how his family had died. He mentioned Tara almost by accident, calling her a friend from Florida, and then admitted to a sexy phone flirtation. He denied an affair.

The police found a latex glove stained with red spray paint near the Jefferson Barracks Bridge, and an orange piece of twine with a noose tied in one end close by, matching twine used in the Colmans' back yard. The neighbour's camera showed no strangers or strange vehicles. She handed over her BlackBerry and laptop, which held explicit videos and messages. He also had a Home Depot receipt for spray paint in his wallet.

He was held without bail. Joyce Meyer Ministries told him to resign or be fired for breaching its morals policy, and it issued a statement expressing sorrow.

Tara testified for about thirty minutes and had to watch the explicit videos. Joyce Meyer and her son also testified.

He was held first at Pontiac Correctional Center in Illinois and then moved to Dodge Correctional Institution in Waupun, Wisconsin. In time the three bodies were exhumed from Evergreen Cemetery and reburied with Sherry's family so that her relatives could visit them.

The case

Murders of Sherry, Garrett and Gavin Coleman

Victims

Sherry Coleman. wife, a former Air Force canine military policeman and stay-at-home mother of two
Garrett Coleman (11). their older son, quiet and thoughtful
Gavin Coleman (9). their younger son, outgoing like his mother

Accused and outcomes

As told in the episode, on 17 August 2023.

Accused

Outcome

Other people

Pastor Ron Coleman. father, a preacher
Connie Coleman. mother
Joyce Meyer. televangelist and employer
Detective Justin Barlow. the Colmans' neighbour and the detective who found the bodies
Kathy LaPlant. Sherry's friend and confidante
Angela. Sherry's mother
Mario De Ciccio. Sherry's brother
Enrico Mirabelli. Sherry's cousin and the family's spokesperson
Jessica Wade. Sherry's friend, who stayed with the family over tmas 2008
Dr. Raj Nanduri. pathologist who conducted the autopsies
Natalie Johnson. Facebook fan who asked for email address

The timeline

  1. March 20, 1977 is born, the son of Pastor Ron Coleman and Connie Colemanabout 0:21:02
  2. 1997 meets Sherry Wece, an Air Force canine military policeman, at a canine training seminar (Lackland Air Force Base)about 0:31:20
  3. three months later, 1997 brings Sherry home unannounced and says he is driving her to Chicagoabout 0:33:39
  4. that night, 1997 and Sherry marry; he calls his father the next morning to tell himabout 0:36:21
  5. 1998 Their son Garrett is bornabout 0:38:39
  6. 2000 Their son Gavin is bornabout 0:38:50
  7. 2000 is hired by Joyce Meyer Ministries as a security officerabout 0:51:29
  8. 2000 The family buys a three-bedroom house at Robert Drive in Columbia (Coleman house)about 0:38:59
  9. 2006 takes out a $250,000 life insurance policy naming Sherry as the only beneficiaryabout 0:51:14
  10. November 2008 is promoted to Joyce Meyer's personal bodyguardabout 0:57:38
  11. November 5, 2008 writes that this is the day Tara Lintz changed his lifeabout 2:08:22
  12. nine days later, November 2008 The first death threats arrive at work emailabout 2:08:38
  13. autumn 2008 and Tara begin their affair and he flies her to meet him on work tripsabout 1:51:53
  14. mid-December 2008 and Tara first have sexabout 2:35:27
  15. December 2008 Sherry sends a friend a text message saying wants a divorceabout 1:45:35
  16. tmas 2008 Sherry shows her friend Jessica Wade pictures of Tara and talks about the affairabout 2:03:17
  17. January 2009 A hand-delivered death threat is left in the Colman mailbox (Coleman house)about 1:02:11
  18. April 27, 2009 A second note, the last warning, is left in the mailbox (Coleman house)about 1:04:09
  19. April 28, 2009 drinks heavily with neighbours and snaps at Sherry in front of themabout 1:10:42
  20. May 2, 2009 has his hair trimmed at the Vita Pure Nature Salon; the boys are camping and the couple have a date night (Vita Pure Nature Salon)about 1:09:16
  21. May 4, 2009 tells Tara he will serve Sherry with divorce papers the next dayabout 2:27:12
  22. May 5, 2009, between 3 and 5 a.m. Sherry, Garrett and Gavin are strangled with a ligature in their home (Coleman house)about 1:22:32

Last meals

  • Sherry Coleman. pasta and chicken with cut-up pizza mixed in dinner at home the night before the murders, May 4, 2009about 1:30:28

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