FILE 425 / 21 September 2023 / 177 MIN / full

Strange Morals & Stranger Sexual Needs

Atascocita, TexasListen

The town

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Atascocita, Texas, outside Houston in southeastern Texas, in Harris County about 0:05:54

History, in brief

1756

The name derives from the Atascocito military outpost and the road built by the Spanish in 1756.

about 0:07:36

Town note

The road ran from Spanish Louisiana through this area to San Antonio.

about 0:08:38

Town note

It was a major route for migrants moving to Texas in the 1820s and 1830s.

about 0:08:51

Town note

The name changed from Atascocito to Atascocita, from masculine to feminine, for unknown reasons.

about 0:08:51
All 9 history facts

1756

The name derives from the Atascocito military outpost and the road built by the Spanish in 1756.

about 0:07:36

Town note

The road ran from Spanish Louisiana through this area to San Antonio.

about 0:08:38

Town note

It was a major route for migrants moving to Texas in the 1820s and 1830s.

about 0:08:51

Town note

The name changed from Atascocito to Atascocita, from masculine to feminine, for unknown reasons.

about 0:08:51

Town note

Housing and commercial construction did not begin until the 1970s; the area was previously the middle of nowhere outside Houston.

about 0:09:06

Town note

In the 1990s it had 15 neighbourhoods and was one of the fastest-growing developments in the greater Houston area.

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Town note

US News and World Report named it one of the best places to retire, citing Lake Houston boating and fishing and numerous golf courses.

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2009

In 2009 the Gadberry Group named Atascocita one of the nine most notable high-growth areas in the United States.

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The figures, as told

Religious

60.5%

Biggest faith: Jewish, 0.6%

about 0:19:29

Who lives here

White 48.3% · Black 18.5% · Asian 3.1% · Hispanic 26.4%

Ethnicity can overlap race.

Crime / national average

Property crime
right about average

about 0:26:35

Violent crime
▼ about half

about 0:26:43

Money

Two-bedroom rent$1,700 a month
Median household income$82,361
Cost of living100.5

For sale

$227,000

Four-bedroom, two-bath house, 1,674 square feet

about 0:22:13

For sale

$325,000

Four-bedroom, two-bath house, 2,199 square feet in Walden on Lake Houston

about 0:22:18

For sale

$2,499,000

Five-bedroom, seven-bath house, 8,267 square feet on 2.17 acres

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For sale

$6,050 per year

HOA fee on the five-bedroom house

about 0:23:56
All figures and comparisons, as told in 2023

Population

"84,222"

No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:18:02

Population in 1990

"18,902"

Comparison: "about one fifth of the current figure". No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:18:09

Median age

"33"

Comparison: "a little bit young". No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:19:04

Married with children

"44%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:19:09

Religious

"60.5%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:19:29

Harris County vote Democrat

"55.9%"

Comparison: "last election". No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:20:02

Harris County vote Republican

"42.7%"

Comparison: "last election". No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:20:02

Harris County vote independent

"1.4%"

Comparison: "last election". No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:20:02

Median household income

"$82,361"

Comparison: "about $25,000 over the national average". Direction: above.

As told in 2023 about 0:20:24

Cost of living

"100.5"

Comparison: "100 is average". Direction: about the same.

As told in 2023 about 0:20:34

Average two-bedroom rent

"$1,700 a month"

Comparison: "well above the national average". Direction: above.

As told in 2023 about 0:21:49

Four-bedroom, two-bath house, 1,674 square feet

"$227,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:22:13

Four-bedroom, two-bath house, 2,199 square feet in Walden on Lake Houston

"$325,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:22:18

HOA fee on the Walden house

"$300 per year"

No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:22:46

Five-bedroom, seven-bath house, 8,267 square feet on 2.17 acres

"$2,499,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:23:56

HOA fee on the five-bedroom house

"$6,050 per year"

No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:23:56

Property crime

"right about average"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: about the same.

As told in 2023 about 0:26:35

Violent crime

"about half"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2023 about 0:26:43

The reviews

2.7 / 5 · average of 7

5 stars

“Family members live there and the reviewer loves visiting; astonished how close the doctor's office, grocery market and bank are.”
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3 stars

“The neighbourhood was safe and family friendly but has become more dangerous; a next-door neighbour was shot in his driveway by a man trying to steal his car.”
about 0:14:20

2 stars

“Does not feel safe because of people who yell at each other through car windows.”
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2 stars

“The area seemed nice with new buildings and stores, but the people are not friendly; the reviewer saw people screaming angrily out of cars at each other at the grocery store.”
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2 stars

“Lives in a trailer park where people do not care for their homes or yards; no street lights or sidewalks and many surrounding neighbourhoods are government housing.”
about 0:16:15

2 stars

“Feels unsafe because of gang violence and drug use; a convict escaped the jail next to the reviewer's house and some neighbourhoods are too scary to drive by.”
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3 stars

“Haven't been anywhere else, so how would I know the difference?”
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The story

In 1994 Farah Fratta was shot dead in the garage of her home in Atascocita, Texas, a suburb north-east of Houston in Harris County. She was 33, the mother of three young children, and had worked for American Airlines for several years. The marriage had broken down over his sexual demands and his insistence on an open marriage, and Farah had filed for divorce in 1992.

Bob was born in 1957. As a teenager he was on a hunting trip when his father suffered a fatal heart attack in the woods. In 1983, aged 26, he married Farah Backer, a woman from Surrey, England, four years younger than him. They had Bradley in 1987, Daniel in 1988 and Amber in 1990. Farah worked for American Airlines, and Bob worked as a public safety officer in Missouri City, a job he took after failing to get into the Houston police academy.

According to the account given in court, Bob wanted his wife to take part in sexual acts with other women while he watched, to choke him while he masturbated, to urinate on him and to defecate in his mouth. A court-appointed psychologist, Dr Lawrence Abrams, described their relationship as pretty sick and said it was the most extreme sexual deviancy he had seen in one couple. Farah went along with some of it for a time but eventually refused. She also said in a deposition that Bob used steroids, was obsessed with his body, wanted an open marriage and had asked her to have breast surgery. She had the surgery in August 1992 as a condition of reconciliation, and Bob moved back in for two weeks before they separated again.

The divorce and custody case dragged on through 1993 and 1994. Bob told friends and co-workers that he would not have to pay child support if Farah were dead, called her the bitch, and began asking people whether they knew anyone who would kill her. He offered a thousand dollars and his Jeep Wrangler, later raising the offer to five thousand dollars. The state later found at least fifteen men who said he had approached them.

On November 9th, 1994, Bob ate dinner with Farah and the children, then took them to a Catholic church in Humble for catechism. He stayed for a parents' meeting and repeatedly left to make and receive calls in the church office, an unusual thing for him to do. Neighbours heard the shots and a scream, saw her fall beside the car, and called 911. They saw a man get into a silver or grey car with a burned-out headlight and drive away. Farah's parents, Lex and Betty Backer, arrived and were with her as she died.

Bob arrived with the children about half an hour after the police. Officers thought he showed no sadness, concern or surprise, and he was taken in for a fourteen-hour interview. He suggested the killing might be connected to his work, to Farah's boyfriend, to drugs, or to a plot by Farah against him. A 9mm pistol and $1,050 in cash were found in his car; he said the money was for new carpet.

The gun had been bought by Bob in 1982, and a firearms examiner matched a bullet fragment from Farah's garage to it.

In a separate matter, Bill Planter, a former sheriff's deputy and briefly chief of police in Splendora, approached Farah's parents and offered to make Bob disappear for $10,000. Planter claimed he had been framed by Harris County officers.

Farah's parents adopted the three children and changed their surname back to Backer. He declined to make a final statement. His son Bradley and Farah's brother Zane attended.

The case

Murder of Farah Fratta

Victims

Farah Fratta. mother of three, worked for American Airlines; born in Surrey, England, in 1961

Accused and outcomes

As told in the episode, on 21 September 2023.

Accused

Accused

Accused

Outcome

Other people

Mary Gip. girlfriend; given immunity for testifying
Lex Backer. Farah's father
Betty Backer. Farah's mother
Bradley Fratta. Bob and Farah's eldest son
Daniel Fratta. Bob and Farah's second son
Amber Fratta. Bob and Farah's daughter
Dr Lawrence Abrams. family court psychologist who evaluated the family
Jerry Parker. Bob's co-worker at the fire station
James Putharski. Bob's gym friend and tanning salon worker
Minnie Lawrence. phone sex worker who met Bob
Helen Black Pace. woman Bob met on a phone chat line
Kitty Waters Sneed. Farah's closest friend and American Airlines colleague
Laura Holster. neighbour who witnessed the shooting
Mike Edens. bodybuilder at Bob's gym whom Bob approached
Jeanette Bledsoe. correctional officer taken hostage by in 2000

The timeline

  1. 1957 is bornabout 0:27:35
  2. when he was a teenager His father has a heart attack and dies during a hunting tripabout 0:27:52
  3. 1983 Bob, aged 26, marries Farah Backer, aged 22about 0:28:41
  4. 1987 Their son Bradley is bornabout 0:33:31
  5. 1988 Their son Daniel is bornabout 0:33:35
  6. 1990 Their daughter Amber is bornabout 0:33:39
  7. 1989 or 1990 Bob meets Helen Black Pace on a telephone chat lineabout 0:55:35
  8. April 1990 Minnie Lawrence meets Bob in person for the first timeabout 1:01:39
  9. 1992 Farah files for divorceabout 1:07:03
  10. August 1992 Farah has breast augmentation surgery as a condition of reconciliationabout 1:12:32
  11. about a month after the surgery Bob moves back into the house, then they separate again two weeks laterabout 1:12:32
  12. March 1993 A court social worker interviews Farahabout 1:17:53
  13. April 1993 The social worker interviews Bobabout 1:17:53
  14. December 1993 Farah gives a deposition explaining the cruelty grounds and Bob's demandsabout 1:20:59
  15. late summer 1994 A masked man breaks into Farah's house, stun-guns her in bed and flees (Farah Fratta's house)about 1:32:21
  16. October 1994 Bob asks Minnie Lawrence on the phone whether she knows anyone who would kill his wifeabout 1:42:42
  17. fall 1994 Bob spends months soliciting friends and acquaintances to kill Farahabout 1:38:50
  18. November 9, 1994 Bob eats dinner with Farah and the children, then takes them to catechism at a Catholic church in Humble (Catholic church in Humble)about 1:47:22
  19. November 9, 1994, about 8 p.m. Farah is shot twice in the head beside her car in her garage (Farah Fratta's house)about 1:50:02

Last meals

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