FILE 464 / 3 February 2024 / 68 MIN / express

Mystery Of The Fake Dad

Sandpoint, IdahoListen

The town

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we're going to sand point idaho ... northern idaho up in the panhandle ... this is in bonner county about 0:03:51

History, in brief

Town note

In the 1880s the Northern Pacific Railroad brought European and Chinese settlers into the area.

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1888

Theodore Roosevelt came to Sandpoint on a caribou hunting trip in 1888, when he was 29 and a civil servant; he called it a rough and tumble environment and documented 30 animals.

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1910

The Humberd Lumber Company operated from 1910 to 1944, taking out huge numbers of trees.

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All 6 history facts

Town note

In the 1880s the Northern Pacific Railroad brought European and Chinese settlers into the area.

about 0:04:51

1888

Theodore Roosevelt came to Sandpoint on a caribou hunting trip in 1888, when he was 29 and a civil servant; he called it a rough and tumble environment and documented 30 animals.

about 0:05:21

1910

The Humberd Lumber Company operated from 1910 to 1944, taking out huge numbers of trees.

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Town note

After the logging the company sold cheap stump ranches, and buyers cleared the stumps themselves; farming and ranching then grew.

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Town note

The town had the so-called discovery of Lake Pend Oreille as a sports fishery.

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The figures, as told

Money

Median home value$537,900
Median household income$53,567
All figures and comparisons, as told in 2024

Median household income

"$53,567"

Comparison: "lower than the national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2024 about 0:04:40

Median home price

"$537,900"

Comparison: "about ten times the median household income". Direction: above.

As told in 2024 about 0:04:40

The reviews

No rated reviews

five stars

“A fantastically quaint small town nestled among the Cascade mountains, with a sprawling lake and wilderness, eagles everywhere you look and adorable shops downtown.”
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four stars

“A beautiful resort-like town where everyone knows everyone, spectacular views and a one-of-a-kind lake; Schweitzer is the place for mountain junkies.”
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two stars

“The lake is extraordinary but the weather is very poor, in line with Seattle, with dark and creepily long winters and seven months of cold.”
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In Idaho

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The story

Paul William Gruber was born in Schofield, Wisconsin, in 1941. He taught for twenty years and also dealt cards, and he retired with enough money to move to Sandpoint, Idaho, where he lived near Lake Pend Oreille and had been there about a year and a half by the winter of 1993. He spent Christmas that year in Reno, Nevada, with his daughter Shelly, her husband and their son Josiah, and on 5 January 1994 he set off on the drive back to Idaho.

Shelly expected him home within a couple of days. When she called, the answering machine picked up with the greeting removed, so there was only a beep, and the calls went unanswered for weeks. On 23 February, her son's birthday, she heard a voice on the machine that was not her father's. On 28 February 1994 she filed a missing persons report, and the Bonner County sheriff's department sent deputies to do a welfare check. There was no sign of a break-in, but his clothes, the guns from his safe, his computer, his television and all his personal papers were gone.

A short, cold birthday card arrived, and Shelly compared the handwriting with cards she had kept; it did not look like her father's. A couple of weeks later his new Ford pickup was found abandoned about an hour from the house with the keys still in the ignition, and in March a passer-by found his mobile phone at the side of the road. More than $22,000 was taken from his account over two weeks at ATMs that happened to have no cameras, yet his electricity, gas and truck payments were kept up and his post office box was emptied regularly.

Shelly set a trap, leaving a message about sending money for her husband's birthday, which was not coming up. Five days later a card arrived with a $25 cheque from her father's chequebook. A document examiner said the writing matched Gruber's, but Shelly insisted the letter p's looked like lollipops, which her father's never did.

On 17 April 1994 detectives found a rug glued to the floor of the house; under it was a gouge that tested positive for gunshot residue, with bloodstains beneath and around the rug. Cadaver dogs found nothing.

On 23 August 1995 Detective Harvey Thompson walked the house with the contractor who built it. A patch of floor was soft and sunken, and when they dug it up they found Gruber's decomposed body four feet below in the crawl space, wrapped in a deflated air mattress, with four .22-calibre bullet wounds. A friend of the s said Christine had asked her to burn Gruber's gun case and throw his briefcase, papers and video camera into a landfill; the state paid about $50,000 to reopen the closed dump and recovered the briefcase.

Extradited to Idaho, he faced a state demand for the death penalty.

The case

Murder of Paul Gruber

Victims

Paul William Gruber (53). retired teacher and card dealer from Schofield, Wisconsin, who had moved to Sandpoint to live on the lake

Accused and outcomes

As told in the episode, on 3 February 2024.

Accused

Outcome

Other people

Shelly. Gruber's daughter, living in Reno; reported him missing and set the trap that caught
Harvey Thompson. Bonner County detective who found the body under the floor
Brett Featherston. defence attorney, who argued an imposter framed him

The timeline

  1. 1941 Paul William Gruber is born in Schofield, Wisconsinabout 0:12:18
  2. 1950 is bornabout 0:28:26
  3. about a year and a half before January 1994 Gruber retires after twenty years of teaching and moves to Sandpoint to live on the lakeabout 0:12:58
  4. December 1993 Gruber spends Christmas in Reno with his daughter Shelly and her family (Shelly's home)about 0:14:12
  5. January 5th, 1994 Gruber leaves Reno to drive back to Sandpoint (Shelly's home)about 0:14:26
  6. mid-January 1994 Shelly's calls reach an answering machine with the greeting removed, so there is only a beep (Gruber house)about 0:16:35
  7. February 23rd, 1994 Calling on her son Josiah's birthday, Shelly hears a voice on her father's machine that is not his (Gruber house)about 0:17:01
  8. February 28th, 1994 Shelly files a missing persons reportabout 0:17:45
  9. late February 1994 Deputies do a welfare check and find no break-in, but his clothes, guns, computer, television and personal papers are gone (Gruber house)about 0:18:59
  10. early 1994 A birthday card arrives with a short, unaffectionate note, and Shelly compares the handwriting with cards she had keptabout 0:19:53
  11. a couple of weeks later, spring 1994 Gruber's new Ford pickup is found abandoned about an hour from his house, keys still in the ignitionabout 0:20:44
  12. March 1994 A passer-by finds Gruber's mobile phone by the side of the roadabout 0:21:03
  13. over two weeks in 1994 More than $22,000 is withdrawn from Gruber's account at multiple ATMs, none of which have camerasabout 0:22:23
  14. early 1994 Gruber's electricity, gas and truck payments keep being made and his post office box mail is collected (Sandpoint post office)about 0:23:07
  15. spring 1994 Shelly leaves a message about money for her husband's non-existent birthday as a trap; five days later a card with a $25 cheque from her father's chequebook arrivesabout 0:24:31
  16. spring 1994 A document examiner says the cards match Gruber's writing, but Shelly says the letter 'p's look like lollipops, unlike her father's (Bonner County Sheriff's Department)about 0:25:39
  17. late March 1994 A police camera on Gruber's post office box films collecting his mail (Sandpoint post office)about 0:27:44
  18. late March 1994 says he last saw Gruber on February 18th, 1994, and that the man in Gruber's driving licence photograph is not the Paul he knewabout 0:29:36
  19. April 17th, 1994 Detectives find a rug glued to the floor; beneath it is a gouge that tests positive for gunshot residue, with bloodstains under and around the rug (Gruber house)about 0:31:16
  20. April 1994 Cadaver dogs search the house and grounds and find nothing (Gruber house)about 0:33:05
  21. April 1994 Deposits into account are found to match withdrawals from Gruber's; says the Paul he knew asked him to pay the bills while he travelled to Canadaabout 0:33:29

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