FILE 473 / 7 March 2024 / 171 MIN / full

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Wilber, NebraskaListen

The town

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This week, in Wilber, Nebraska ... This is in Saline or Saline County, however it's said. about 0:00:00

History, in brief

1873

Platted in 1873 by C.D. Wilber; the town is named for him, W-I-L-B-E-R.

about 0:06:44

Town note

It became the seat of Saline County, transferred there from Pleasant Hill.

about 0:06:56

1987

Declared the official Czech capital of the United States on July 10th, 1987, in a decree signed by President Ronald Reagan.

about 0:07:07

2023

The town holds the Czech Days Festival; in 2023 it celebrated 150 years of Czech heritage.

about 0:14:46
All 4 history facts

1873

Platted in 1873 by C.D. Wilber; the town is named for him, W-I-L-B-E-R.

about 0:06:44

Town note

It became the seat of Saline County, transferred there from Pleasant Hill.

about 0:06:56

1987

Declared the official Czech capital of the United States on July 10th, 1987, in a decree signed by President Ronald Reagan.

about 0:07:07

2023

The town holds the Czech Days Festival; in 2023 it celebrated 150 years of Czech heritage.

about 0:14:46

The figures, as told

Who lives here

White 89.6% · Black 0.4% · Asian 0.2% · Hispanic 7.9%

Ethnicity can overlap race.

Crime / national average

Property crime
▼ about half

about 0:17:51

Violent crime
▼ about a quarter

about 0:17:55

Money

Median home value$181,400
Two-bedroom rentabout $940
Cost of living$78

For sale

$52,000

Two-bedroom, one-bath, 946-square-foot house

about 0:12:20

For sale

$225,000

Four-bedroom, two-bath, 2,956-square-foot house

about 0:13:16

For sale

$3,200,000

Three-bedroom, seven-bath, 8,120-square-foot house on about 100 acres

about 0:14:11
All figures and comparisons, as told in 2024

Population

"1,984"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:09:45

Male share

"53.5% male"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:09:55

Median age

"37"

Comparison: "national average". No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:10:09

Married

"about 52%"

Comparison: "50-50 is the normal". No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:10:16

Religious affiliation

"52%"

Comparison: "just over the national average". Direction: above.

As told in 2024 about 0:10:28

Median household income, county

"$71,389 a year"

Comparison: "a couple thousand higher than the national average". Direction: above.

As told in 2024 about 0:10:42

Cost of living index

"$78"

Comparison: "$100 being a regular average". Direction: below.

As told in 2024 about 0:10:55

Median home cost

"$181,400"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:11:02

Average two-bedroom rent

"about $940"

Comparison: "national average, about $1,200". No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:11:33

Two-bedroom, one-bath, 946-square-foot house

"$52,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:12:20

Four-bedroom, two-bath, 2,956-square-foot house

"$225,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:13:16

Three-bedroom, seven-bath, 8,120-square-foot house on about 100 acres

"$3,200,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:14:11

Property crime

"about half"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2024 about 0:17:51

Violent crime

"about a quarter"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2024 about 0:17:55

The reviews

4.0 / 5 · average of 2

5 stars

“A resident since 1989 says it is a wonderful small community with old world charm as the national Czech capital, and a great place to raise a family and learn Czech.”
about 0:07:44

3 stars

“A small town with few larger stores but a surprising number of hair salons and places to eat, a Subway, a Casey's, two meat markets and several bars; the grocery store is dearer than Walmart but convenient, and Lincoln is only 40 minutes away.”
about 0:08:24

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The story

Sydney Irene Loofe was born in Broken Bow, Nebraska, on 21 August 1993, the middle of George and Susie Loof's three children. Her father was a high school principal and her mother a teacher. The family moved to Neligh when Sydney was seven, and she graduated from the high school where her father was principal in 2011. She went to work for Menards and later transferred to the store at 27th Street and Cornhusker Highway near Lincoln, where she lived in the Havelock area with a cat called Mimsy. Scoliosis had ended her basketball and golf as a teenager, and she struggled with depression and anxiety for which she took medication. Friends described her as generous, someone who took in a younger colleague who was living in poor conditions and taught him to budget and look after himself. She wanted to leave Menards and work with animals at a veterinary practice.

On 11 November 2017 Sydney, who was 24 and liked women, matched on Tinder with a young woman calling herself Audrey. They talked about food and about casinos; Sydney said she had been to one only on her 21st birthday. Two days later they arranged a first date. Audrey suggested meeting somewhere in Lincoln to cruise and smoke weed, then dinner at Riva, a steak and seafood restaurant at a casino, with Audrey paying for the gambling. Sydney, who had not smoked for six days, agreed. Audrey asked for her address so she could work out the drive and booked a room at the Best Western in Lincoln.

The first date was on the evening of 14 November 2017. Audrey picked Sydney up, they drove around Lincoln and smoked, and Audrey brought her home a couple of hours later. They arranged to go out again the following night. On 15 November Sydney worked a shift at Menards; she told a friend, Tara Gehrig, that she had enjoyed the date and hoped Audrey was single. She posted a selfie in a dressy shirt on Snapchat, and her mother saw it and asked why she had not mentioned the date. Audrey picked her up shortly before 7 p.m. Phone records put the pair at an apartment in Wilber, and at 8.08 p.m. Sydney's phone last registered on a tower near the town. By 8.40 p.m. it was off and a text from her mother went undelivered.

The following morning Sydney did not arrive for her shift at Menards and did not call in, which her family said was completely out of character. At 5.08 p.m. on 16 November her family reported her missing to Lincoln police. They told officers she had been on a date and had not come home. Her parents and younger sister met police at her apartment on Colfax Street on the Friday morning. Her SUV was in the driveway and Mimsy was inside without food or water. Her purse was on the counter but her wallet, keys and phone were gone, which led police to think she had either never come home or left willingly.

The search grew quickly. Lincoln police and county sheriff's deputies searched Wilber, the family set up a Find Sydney Loofe Facebook page, and her picture went up on billboards along Interstate 80. Her brother Levi, a teacher and basketball coach at Valentine High School, had his team wear green ribbons on their shoes. On 21 November the Lincoln police chief, Jeff Bliemeister, called the disappearance concerning.

After graduating in 2012 she moved to northern Missouri, had a child with a former high school football player, and in February 2016 filed a protection order against him alleging emotional and physical abuse. She was known as a young woman fascinated by serial killers and torture, and by acting as a cat, wearing only a collar and eating from a pet dish on the floor.

The pair lived in a rented basement apartment in Wilber, close to the high school, and neighbours first took them for father and daughter until they saw them holding hands. The couple travelled the antique circuit, buying and selling coins, toys and advertising signs, and were wanted for passing bad cheques. He wrote cheques for $28,298 for gold and silver coins. Investigators believed the pair had taken between $300,000 and $500,000 across several states.

Police responded that the posts were extraordinary.

On 4 December 2017 officers were sent to an open area of Clay County, north of County Road 308 and Road South near Edgar, where phone records showed the pair had slowed or stopped. Almost immediately they found a black plastic rubbish bag with an arm protruding; a tattoo on the right arm read 'it will all be wonderful someday'. Sydney had been cut into 14 pieces and packed into nearly a dozen bags along a gravel road. The next day investigators found 17 separate scenes and recovered all but one piece, an upper left arm. The autopsy found restraint marks on her wrists, scrapes on her back, a torn earlobe, and injuries consistent with strangulation. Sex toys, a dog lead and a plastic sauna suit were found among the debris.

He told the FBI he had offered Sydney $5,000 to appear in a sexual fantasy video, though no footage or agreement was found.

Others came forward. The group had a kill bag with a hammer and pliers, and in August 2017 went to a Walmart in Beatrice to meet a potential victim. One woman left after a panic attack at a TJ Maxx while shopping for something to kill in.

Her defence described a childhood that went wrong: a biological father murdered when she was an infant, a sexual assault in college, and an abusive boyfriend named Freddie who threw her downstairs while she was pregnant.

She paid, and smuggled in a phone, chewing tobacco and a gun. Sydney's co-workers at Menards raised money for a plaque on a bench at the Henry Doorly Zoo, one of her favourite places, and the Set Me Free project set up a $3,000 scholarship in her name.

The case

Murder of Sydney Loofe

Victims

Sydney Loofe (24). Menards worker from Lincoln who met on Tinder

Accused and outcomes

As told in the episode, on 7 March 2024.

Accused

Accused

Outcome

Other people

George Loof. Sydney's father, a high school principal; named Nebraska Rural Community School Association Principal of the Year in early 2018 and retired at the end of that school year
Susie Loof. Sydney's mother, a teacher
Levi Loof. Sydney's older brother, teacher and coach of the Valentine High School basketball team
Tara Gehrig. Sydney's friend, who testified about her mental state, drug use and shyness
Jeff Bliemeister. Lincoln police chief, who called the disappearance concerning
Joe Murray. defence attorney, part of a father and son defence team
Freddie. former boyfriend and father of her child, whom she said abused her

The timeline

  1. August 21st, 1993 Sydney Irene Loofe is born, the middle of George and Susie Loof's three children. (Broken Bow)about 0:19:21
  2. 2011 Sydney graduates from the high school in Neligh where her father is principal and starts work at Menards. (Neligh)about 0:20:53
  3. February 2016 files a protection order against the father of her child in Trenton, Missouri, alleging emotional and physical abuse. (Trenton)about 0:56:34
  4. April 2017 and go to an antique coin auction in York County, Pennsylvania, posing as rich buyers; writes fraudulent cheques for $28,298. (York County auction)about 1:04:41
  5. June 2017 The couple rent display cabinets at antique shops to sell vintage glassware and toys.about 1:17:14
  6. the summer before Sydney was killed A 22-year-old woman joins and group and is told she must kill someone and breathe in their last breath to gain power. (basement apartment)about 1:40:56
  7. August 2017 A follower goes with to a Walmart in Beatrice to meet a potential victim; asks whether she wants the girl to be her first kill. (Walmart in Beatrice)about 1:44:54
  8. October 2017 One follower has a panic attack at a TJ Maxx while shopping for an outfit to kill in and leaves the group; another leaves after getting a job at the Lincoln Mall. (TJ Maxx)about 1:49:08
  9. October 31st, 2017 A woman meets on Tinder; she later meets at an Ameristar hotel room, where he is called Master.about 2:11:52
  10. November 10th, 2017 Sydney visits her parents and says her medication for depression and anxiety is not working. (Neligh)about 0:45:24
  11. November 11th, 2017 Sydney and a woman calling herself Audrey match on Tinder and have their first conversation. (Lincoln)about 0:32:16
  12. November 13th, 2017 They arrange a first date: cruise and smoke in Lincoln, then dinner at Riva at a casino. (Lincoln)about 0:35:20
  13. November 15th, 2017 buys a hacksaw, a utility knife, boxes of trash bags, duct tape and four roasting pans hours before the date. (Lincoln)about 1:08:48
  14. November 15th, 2017 Audrey picks Sydney up shortly before 7 p.m.; her phone travels to the Wilber apartment, last registers at 8.08 p.m. and is off by 8.40 p.m. (basement apartment)about 0:43:14
  15. November 16th, 2017 Sydney fails to appear at Menards and does not call in; at 5.08 p.m. her family reports her missing to Lincoln police. (Lincoln Police Department)about 0:44:44
  16. November 17th, 2017 picks up another follower and they travel to different hotels in Nebraska.about 2:09:16
  17. November 19th, 2017 Lincoln police and county sheriff's deputies search Wilber; the family sets up a Find Sydney Loofe page and billboards go up along Interstate 80. (Wilber)about 0:51:36
  18. November 21st, 2017 Lincoln police chief Jeff Bliemeister calls her disappearance concerning. (Lincoln)about 0:52:57
  19. November 22nd, 2017 , and a friend check into a Kearney hotel at 1.19 p.m. and leave 20 minutes later with all their luggage. (Kearney hotel)about 1:07:40
  20. November 28th, 2017 Police publicly name and as persons of interest. (Lincoln)about 0:54:09
  21. December 4th, 2017 Sydney's dismembered remains are found in trash bags along a gravel road north of County Road 308 and Road South near Edgar. (Clay County field)about 1:20:14

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