FILE 475 / 14 March 2024 / 175 MIN / full

One Too Many Girlfriends

Wilmington, DelawareListen

The town

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This is Wilmington, Delaware. It's in Northern Delaware... This is Newcastle County, area code 302. about 0:06:13

History, in brief

1868

In 1868 Wilmington was producing more iron ships than the rest of the country combined.

about 0:07:39

Town note

Wilmington ranked first in the country for gunpowder production.

about 0:07:50

Town note

Wilmington ranked second for carriages and leather production.

about 0:07:58

Town note

Wilmington calls itself the corporate capital of the world because corporations incorporate there for the tax laws.

about 0:06:20
All 8 history facts

1868

In 1868 Wilmington was producing more iron ships than the rest of the country combined.

about 0:07:39

Town note

Wilmington ranked first in the country for gunpowder production.

about 0:07:50

Town note

Wilmington ranked second for carriages and leather production.

about 0:07:58

Town note

Wilmington calls itself the corporate capital of the world because corporations incorporate there for the tax laws.

about 0:06:20

Town note

Wilmington calls itself the chemical capital of the world.

about 0:07:22

1981

In the 1980s office construction and job growth followed national banks and financial institutions arriving after the 1981 Financial Center Development Act loosened the laws governing banks in the state.

about 0:08:20

Town note

At the entrance to town on Delaware Avenue a sign announces Wilmington as a place to be somebody.

about 0:21:48

Town note

The DuPont Company and the banking industries drawn by Delaware's corporation-friendly laws employ much of the workforce, along with the state government offices.

about 0:22:14

The figures, as told

Religious

46.9%

about 0:11:40

Who lives here

White 28.3% · Black 57.2% · Asian 1.5% · Hispanic 10.8%

Ethnicity can overlap race.

Crime / national average

Property crime
▲ almost twice the average

about 0:18:53

Violent crime
▲ about three times the average rate

about 0:19:06

Money

Median home value$273,100
Two-bedroom rentabout $1,280 a month
Median household income$49,354 a year
Cost of living$104,000

For sale

$85,000

Two-bedroom, two-bath house, 1,200 square feet

about 0:14:00

For sale

$399,000

Three-bedroom, two-bath house, 1,375 square feet

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All figures and comparisons, as told in 2024

Population

"70,926"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:10:42

Gender split

"more females than males"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:10:50

Median age

"36.3"

Comparison: "right around the national average". Direction: about the same.

As told in 2024 about 0:10:54

Marriage rate

"30%"

Comparison: "normally 50%". No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:11:01

People with children who are single

"39.6%"

Comparison: "normally 10%". No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:11:03

White residents

"28.3%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:11:14

Black residents

"57.2%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:11:14

Asian residents

"1.5%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:11:14

Native American residents

"0.2%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:11:14

Hispanic residents

"10.8%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:11:14

Religious residents

"46.9%"

Comparison: "just under the average". Direction: below.

As told in 2024 about 0:11:40

Catholics

"the largest religious group"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:11:46

Unemployment rate

"10.3%"

Comparison: "under 4% in the rest of the country". Direction: below.

As told in 2024 about 0:12:02

Median household income

"$49,354 a year"

Comparison: "about $20,000 below the national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2024 about 0:12:30

Cost of living

"$104,000"

Comparison: "national average is $100,000". Direction: above.

As told in 2024 about 0:12:42

Median home cost

"$273,100"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:12:49

Average two-bedroom rent

"about $1,280 a month"

Comparison: "above the national average". Direction: above.

As told in 2024 about 0:13:14

Two-bedroom, two-bath house, 1,200 square feet

"$85,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:14:00

Three-bedroom, two-bath house, 1,375 square feet

"$399,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:14:31

Eight-bedroom, seven-bath house, 11,500 square feet on 4.71 acres, built in 1875

"$1,950,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:15:24

Property crime

"almost twice the average"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: above.

As told in 2024 about 0:18:53

Violent crime

"about three times the average rate"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: above.

As told in 2024 about 0:19:06

The reviews

2.3 / 5 · average of 3

4 stars

“A small city with lots of things to do; landmarks and amazing ethnic restaurants make days worth it.”
about 0:09:04

2 stars

“A lifelong Delaware resident calls it extremely dangerous and not good for raising a family, with almost no social or financial mobility, good but underfunded schools, expensive housing in poor condition, dangerous neighbourhoods, a short commute and an extremely diverse population, and overall a bad city that offers no stability.”
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1 star

“Everyone here is miserable and there is nothing to do 90% of the year; the roads are congested and the area is being overdeveloped.”
about 0:10:23

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The story

Anne Marie Fahey was born in Wilmington, Delaware, in 1966, the youngest of six children in a working-class Irish family. Her mother was diagnosed with cancer when Anne Marie was about seven and died when she was eight, in the early 1970s. She reconciled with her father in 1984, when she was about eighteen, and he died of leukaemia two years later, so both parents were dead by the time she was twenty. She graduated from Wesley College in Dover, spent a semester in Spain and took a degree in international relations, then went to Washington, D.C., hoping to become a diplomat. In 1991 a friend told her that the office of Delaware congressman Tom Carper needed a receptionist, and she took the job. When Carper was elected governor in 1992 she moved back to Wilmington and became the governor's scheduler.

The family lived in an exclusive Wilmington area called Brandywine 100 and sent the children to Catholic schools. Tom was a star football player, did well academically, graduated from Boston College and its law school in 1974, married his high school sweetheart Kay Ryan and became first a public defender and then a prosecutor. By 1996 he was in private practice, earning $250,000 a year, and had four daughters.

He also had a long history with women. In 1977, three years into his marriage, he began pressuring a Wilmington attorney's secretary to sleep with him. She refused, married another man, and he responded with harassing phone calls, following her, watching her from his office and trying to have her evicted from an apartment block his family owned. He told her this was his town and his state. In September 1980 he asked a man he believed to be a thug to hurt her, saying "hurt that bitch"; the man was an FBI informant. No physical harm came to her and she eventually moved out of state.

In 1981 he began an affair with Deborah McIntyre, a school administrator, which lasted fifteen years. In the summer of 1993 he asked Anne Marie Fahey to lunch. She was single, in her twenties and had just come out of a long relationship. They had dinner at Ristorante Panorama in Philadelphia and their first kiss, and from then on he ordered for her, bought her clothes, gifts and plane tickets and paid for a 32-inch television and an espresso machine in the apartment she took in 1994. He was still married. By 1995 he had also begun an affair with Susan Louth, a secretary at the family firm, and in late 1995 he left his wife. Anne Marie, meanwhile, began dating Michael Scanlon, an MBNA banker introduced to her by the governor, and told her sister she hoped to marry him.

He did not want her going to the shore with friends or to the pub where her family drank, told her she looked like a whore when she wore anything low-cut, and reminded her that the television, the dresses and even the groceries were his. In February he had told his brother Gerard that two people were extorting him, borrowed a handgun and asked whether Gerard knew anyone who could break someone's legs; he also asked about using Gerard's boat if he had to kill them. In April he bought a five-foot Igloo cooler at Sports Authority on Concord Pike for $180.

On 27 June 1996 they had dinner at Ristorante Panorama, the place of their first kiss. They began eating at seven; she wore a Laura Ashley flower-print dress and ate swordfish. Her leftovers were boxed at about nine. They drove to his house at Grant Avenue for groceries, then to her apartment, where he put rice, bananas, spinach, strawberries and soup on the counter and gave her a $400 outfit from Talbot's. He said he checked the air conditioner and used the bathroom and left by ten.

At eleven o'clock, by his later account, McIntyre burst into the great room of his house with the Beretta while he and Anne Marie were watching television. He said she was threatening suicide, that he grabbed for the gun and that it went off, hitting Anne Marie in the head. He did not call police or an ambulance. Instead he wrapped the body in a blanket, put it in the cooler, and the next morning, 28 June, woke his brother Gerard at six o'clock and asked for the keys to his boat. They towed the cooler to Stone Harbor, New Jersey, took Gerard's 25-foot Hydra Sports boat, Summer Wind, out about seventy-seven miles and pushed the cooler overboard. It floated. Gerard said afterwards that the last thing he saw was an ankle and a foot sinking into the water. The trip took eight hours.

Another brother ordered the dumpsters emptied early. That night he had pizza with his daughters, fell asleep, then drove to McIntyre's house on Delaware Avenue and spent the night with her.

Anne Marie was reported missing when she failed to appear for dinner with her brother and her boyfriend on 30 June. Her sister and friends found groceries on the counter, the gift box open on the floor, the bed turned down but unslept in, and her Volkswagen Jetta still outside; only her car keys were gone. He said he had left her at ten and stopped for cigarettes at the Getty station on Lovering Avenue; the station had closed early that night. Detectives searching his house found bloodstains on the woodwork and radiator, a stain near a container of Carbona blood remover he had bought at Happy Harry's, and the fresh carpet.

Over the Fourth of July weekend more than three hundred people searched the park and creek near her apartment, and her family offered a $10,000 reward. Fishermen from Harrisburg found the five-foot cooler floating offshore, with its lid missing and a bullet hole in the side, and kept it to store fish. The FBI intercepted a cargo ship carrying a pint of Anne Marie's donated blood so that her DNA could be matched to the stains in the house.

He died of natural causes in his cell at the James T. Vaughn Correctional Center in 2011, aged sixty-one.

The case

Murder of Anne Marie Fahey

Victims

Anne Marie Fahey. Governor's scheduler, born in 1966, youngest of six in a working-class Irish family

Accused and outcomes

As told in the episode, on 14 March 2024.

Accused

Outcome

Other people

Deborah McIntyre. his mistress of fifteen years, a school administrator; given immunity and testified for the prosecution
Susan Louth. secretary at the family construction firm and his girlfriend from 1995
Michael Scanlon. MBNA banker and Anne Marie's boyfriend
Brian Fahey. Anne Marie's brother
Mark Fahey. Anne Marie's brother
Tom Carper. Delaware congressman and then governor; Anne Marie's boss
Keith Brady. Delaware chief deputy attorney general who testified about a sexual encounter at McIntyre's house
Charles Oberle III. former Delaware attorney general and lawyer
Ken Chubb. fisherman who found the cooler and later turned it over to the FBI

The timeline

  1. 1949 is born, seventeen years before Anne Marie Faheyabout 0:29:46
  2. 1966 Anne Marie Fahey is born in Wilmington, the youngest of six childrenabout 0:23:29
  3. early 1970s Anne Marie's mother is diagnosed with cancer and dies when Anne Marie is eightabout 0:24:06

Murder of Joseph Johnson

Victims

Joseph Johnson. known as Spoon; shot behind the ear

Accused and outcomes

As told in the episode, on 14 March 2024.

Accused

Outcome

Other people

Joseph Johnson. the victim, known as Spoon

The timeline

  1. and accomplices shoot Joseph Johnson behind the ear and dump him in a creek near Delaware City; floodgates stop the body reaching the river (Delaware City creek)about 2:38:25

Last meals

  • Anne Marie Fahey. swordfish, with the main course barely touched and boxed up as leftovers dinner at Ristorante Panorama on the night she disappeared, June 27, 1996about 1:21:19

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