FILE 367 / 2 March 2023 / 169 MIN / full

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Hockessin, DelawareListen

The town

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It's about 20 minutes to Wilmington, Delaware... Newcastle County, uh Area Code 302. about 0:06:36

History, in brief

Town note

Hockessin is about 20 minutes from Wilmington, Delaware, and about an hour from Cheswold.

about 0:06:22

Town note

The name is believed to come from one of the first settled properties, called Occasion, settled by William Cox.

about 0:06:46

Town note

The area was the location of the first Quaker meetings before a meeting house was built.

about 0:06:55

1734

The earliest known use of the name was in a 1734 property deed.

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All 5 history facts

Town note

Hockessin is about 20 minutes from Wilmington, Delaware, and about an hour from Cheswold.

about 0:06:22

Town note

The name is believed to come from one of the first settled properties, called Occasion, settled by William Cox.

about 0:06:46

Town note

The area was the location of the first Quaker meetings before a meeting house was built.

about 0:06:55

1734

The earliest known use of the name was in a 1734 property deed.

about 0:07:25

1790

Missionary priests from Maryland established the Coffee Run Mission in 1790.

about 0:07:45

The figures, as told

Religious

46.9%

Biggest faith: Jewish residents, 0.7%

about 0:14:21

Who lives here

White 81.8% · Black 4% · Asian 12% · Hispanic 0.4%

Ethnicity can overlap race.

Crime / national average

Property crime
right at average, almost exactly

about 0:23:13

Violent crime
exactly average

about 0:23:21

Money

Median home value$481,100
Two-bedroom rentabout $1,523
Median household income$121,432 a year
Cost of living125

For sale

$351,000

Three-bedroom, two-bath house, 1,825 square feet

about 0:16:36

For sale

$529,999

Six-bedroom, five-bath house, 2,400 square feet

about 0:17:51

For sale

$1,185,000

Five-bedroom, five-bath house, 3,300 square feet on 9.7 acres

about 0:18:26
All figures and comparisons, as told in 2023

Property crime

"right at average, almost exactly"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: about the same.

As told in 2023 about 0:23:13

Violent crime

"exactly average"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: about the same.

As told in 2023 about 0:23:21

Population

"13,600"

No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:13:25

Female share of the population

"a little over 50%"

Comparison: "about normal". Direction: about the same.

As told in 2023 about 0:13:30

Median age

"47.8"

Comparison: "about 10 years older than the national average". Direction: above.

As told in 2023 about 0:13:33

People aged 85 and over

"more than twice as many as normal"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: above.

As told in 2023 about 0:13:45

Married people

"62%"

Comparison: "above normal, usually 50-50". Direction: above.

As told in 2023 about 0:13:53

White residents

"81.8%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:14:00

Black residents

"4%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:14:00

Asian residents

"12%"

Comparison: "more than double the average". Direction: above.

As told in 2023 about 0:14:00

Hispanic residents

"0.4%"

Comparison: "insanely low". Direction: below.

As told in 2023 about 0:14:10

Democratic vote in the last election

"67.8%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:14:50

Republican vote in the last election

"30.7%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:14:50

Independent vote in the last election

"1.5%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:14:50

Religious residents

"46.9%"

Comparison: "a little less than 50%". Direction: below.

As told in 2023 about 0:14:21

Jewish residents

"0.7%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:14:42

Median household income

"$121,432 a year"

Comparison: "more than double the normal, about $55,000". Direction: above.

As told in 2023 about 0:15:01

Cost of living index

"125"

Comparison: "100 is the regular average". Direction: above.

As told in 2023 about 0:15:15

Median home cost

"$481,100"

Comparison: "well over the national average". Direction: above.

As told in 2023 about 0:15:20

Average two-bedroom rental

"about $1,523"

Comparison: "national average is $1,200". No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:16:02

Three-bedroom, two-bath house, 1,825 square feet

"$351,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:16:36

Six-bedroom, five-bath house, 2,400 square feet

"$529,999"

No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:17:51

Five-bedroom, five-bath house, 3,300 square feet on 9.7 acres

"$1,185,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2023 about 0:18:26

The reviews

4.4 / 5 · average of 5

5 stars

“They met all their closest friends here; it is a small, safe town and they used to walk all through town to go to Wawa for fun.”
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5 stars

“Employed at the same restaurant for three years, the best job ever, and they love the town.”
about 0:08:59

5 stars

“Peaceful areas for introverted people, forests and trees covering most of it, ancient brick buildings, good air quality, and houses on hills with distant neighbours.”
about 0:09:10

4 stars

“A nice place for everyone, in the Red Clay School District, with safe and kind people and good schools; written for a college scholarship.”
about 0:10:32

3 stars

“Could be worse, but it smells like fertilizer some days, and Delaware is only a temporary situation; don't move there if you are not from there.”
about 0:12:11

In Delaware

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The story

Hockessin is a small town of about 13,600 people in New Castle County, north-west Delaware, twenty minutes from Wilmington. On the figures James reads out, its property and violent crime rates are exactly average.

Dr Martin Cohen was a clinical psychologist from New York, fifty-nine in 1988. After fifteen years running public mental health hospitals in Illinois he was appointed director of the Delaware State Hospital, a 460-bed facility south of Wilmington and the largest in the state. Staff called him kind and caring, and he told a reporter that everyone has a breaking point.

His wife Ethel, four or five years older and from Chicago, had danced in a Broadway show and worked as an occupational therapist. Everyone called her bubbly. By the late 1980s she had high blood pressure, arthritis and knee trouble and walked with a cane.

He was bright, good-looking and a fine tennis player, but strange: a mohawk, a Superman costume at school in March 1979, a red velvet dress and fishnet stockings, a faked seizure in a crowded McDonald's. He began using cocaine in his junior year and was thrown out of the Marines after two weeks for failing to disclose his drug addictions. In 1984 a short relationship ended; he became depressed, shaved all the hair off his body, began binge-eating and had violent sexual fantasies.

He did not want to move to Delaware, writing to a friend that his parents would need his help and that he was sacrificing his own happiness. The family rented a townhouse at Beech Tree Lane, in the Gateway Townhouses off Old Lancaster Pike. He enrolled as an art student at the University of Delaware and worked at a local gas station for a week or two. His art teachers were disturbed by his drawings, including a coat rack holding the heads of a man and a woman, and a sketchbook with doodles of people being shot in the head and the words 'fuck you', 'I hate you' and 'death of happiness'. He told a psychologist he had to commit murder to get the anger out of his system.

On the evening of 12 November 1988 his father was watching television downstairs and his mother was in the kitchen. He called downstairs that his father had fallen. Ethel climbed the stairs with her cane and the cordless telephone. As she turned, he hit her in the face with the dumbbell and stabbed her; the wounds to her throat almost severed her head.

He showered, smoked a cigarette and watched for police. When none came he ransacked the house, taking his mother's handbag, his father's wallet, jewellery, cassette tapes, a Sony stereo cassette player, clothes, a guitar and an amp, and between five and seven hundred dollars in cash. He returned to Delaware, freebased, went back to Chester for more, then parked behind the post office and asked the second dealer to sell the family Nissan.

Martin was normally at work by 6.30 every morning. When he did not appear, his staff raised the alarm, and his sister in New York called because she had not reached him on the Sunday evening. Two hospital staff members went to the townhouse with the letting agent and her key and found the bodies upstairs.

The autopsies found repeated blunt-force blows to both heads, consistent with a barbell, and deep knife wounds to both throats. Neither had alcohol in their blood.

He did not attend his parents' funeral in Queens. A couple of days later the Nissan was found near Chester. By Thanksgiving he was on Skid Row in Los Angeles, and in December he talked his way into an impound lot and drove off in the towed LTD, nearly running over the attendant. America's Most Wanted put him on the air three times for a $2,500 reward.

By February 1989 he was staying at the Salvation Army men's shelter in Sacramento and working at a produce warehouse as Michael Richards. He saw a promo for a profile of a punk rock drummer who had killed his parents, assumed it was him, and left for San Francisco.

There he met Conrad Lutz, a fifty-one-year-old vice president at a Wells Fargo branch.

On 24 February 1990 he waited across the street from Lutz's bank, met him when he left at five, and they took a bus to Castro Street for dinner and then to Lutz's second-floor apartment, arriving about 7.30. They ate ice cream and watched a film until about ten, when they went into the bedroom.

He showered, changed his trousers and filled duffel bags with CDs, records, Lutz's cufflinks, a gold ring and an expensive watch. He took a taxi downtown, drank coffee at an all-night burger restaurant, then went to Berkeley and sold most of Lutz's records before checking into a hotel under an assumed name. Two days later America's Most Wanted broadcast his profile and he caught part of it in a deli. He could not use Lutz's cheques or cards, so he went back on the road, crossing the country several times and stealing from people unlikely to report it. In Provincetown, Massachusetts, he suppressed an urge to kill again.

In the second week of February 1990, shortly before Mardi Gras, he arrived in Louisiana and moved into an efficiency apartment with no electricity, shared with Greg Fitch, a twenty-one-year-old homeless rights worker.

On 2 April 1990, at about 10.30 in the morning, he hailed a cab at the edge of the French Quarter. The driver was Abed El Hakum Kalil, an Egyptian and a former special forces soldier. When the cab slowed, he jumped out and ran without paying the $32 fare.

Kalil chased him. Kalil caught him in a headlock, put him in the cab and flagged down a police car.

Afterwards he ate a Kentucky Fried Chicken meal for half an hour while detectives watched through the glass, then gave a taped statement describing both crimes and saying the murders were premeditated and that he had been sober.

He was flown to Delaware in stages, with an orthopaedic brace on his knees because airlines would not carry a restrained passenger. In July 1992 his request to move to the Delaware State Hospital was refused, and in December 1992 he waived any claim to his parents' $330,000 estate.

The board refused in less than three minutes. Reporters contacted him in 2019 and 2020; he replied once: 'I don't want to be interviewed.'

The case

Murder of Dr Martin and Ethel Cohen

Victims

Dr Martin Cohen (59). clinical psychologist, from New York; director of the Delaware State Hospital
Ethel Cohen. his wife, an occupational therapist from Chicago, four or five years older than him

Accused and outcomes

As told in the episode, on 2 March 2023.

Accused

Outcome

Other people

John Simmons. high school friend who said began using cocaine and later seemed burned out
Dr Gerald Cook. psychiatrist who examined Cohen and diagnosed borderline personality disorder
Robert O'Neill. Deputy Attorney General who helped prosecute him
Dr Martin Cohen's sister. called the hospital from New York when she could not reach her brother

The timeline

  1. 1964 is born, the only child of Martin and Ethel Cohenabout 0:28:56
  2. March 1979 He turns up at school in a full Superman costumeabout 0:35:02
  3. 1979 to 1980 Friends say he begins using cocaine in his junior year, starts wearing a mohawk and dresses more strangelyabout 0:36:17
  4. after graduation He goes to the University of Illinois for a while, then enlists in the Marines and is thrown out after two weeks for failing to disclose his drug addictionsabout 0:38:24
  5. 1984 A short, intense relationship ends; he becomes depressed, shaves all the hair off his body, begins binge-eating and has violent sexual fantasiesabout 0:51:26

Murder of Conrad Lutz

Victims

Conrad Lutz (51). vice president of a Wells Fargo bank branch in San Francisco

Accused and outcomes

As told in the episode, on 2 March 2023.

Accused

Outcome

Other people

Abed El Hakum Kalil. Egyptian-born cab driver and former special forces soldier who chased him down and handed him to police
Hilda Saunderberg. 80-year-old woman he grabbed and pushed to the ground while fleeing
Ronald Ralbathan. Saunderberg's son-in-law, punched and stomped by Cohen
Greg Fitch. 21-year-old homeless rights worker Cohen lived with in New Orleans
Goldy Palama. bartender at Igor's Lounge who thought he was a psycho

The timeline

  1. February 1989 Cohen arrives in San Francisco after leaving the Sacramento shelterabout 1:41:02
  2. February 1990 He meets Conrad Lutz on the street; Lutz buys him dinner and lets him sleep at his apartment (Lutz apartment)about 1:42:43
  3. February 23, 1990 Lutz gives him money for food and an all-day cinema and goes to workabout 1:43:24
  4. February 24, 1990 Cohen waits across the street from Lutz's bank, meets him when he leaves at five, and they take a bus to Castro Street for dinner (Wells Fargo bank branch)about 1:44:06
  5. February 24, 1990, about 7.30 p.m. They reach Lutz's second-floor apartment, eat ice cream and watch a film on television (Lutz apartment)about 1:44:21
  6. February 24, 1990, about 10 p.m. They go into the bedroom; Cohen gives Lutz a massage and tells him to turn over and close his eyes (Lutz apartment)about 1:45:15
  7. February 24, 1990 Cohen stabs Lutz in the heart with a four-and-a-half-inch steel dagger; Lutz fights to within five or six feet of the front door before he dies (Lutz apartment)about 1:46:06

Last meals

  • Conrad Lutz. dinner at a restaurant on Castro Street, then ice cream at his apartment his last meal, the evening he was killed, February 1990about 1:44:13

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