FILE 298 / 7 July 2022 / 172 MIN / full

The Sugar Daddy Death Caper

Woodbridge, VirginiaListen

The town

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We are going all the way to Virginia here... Woodbridge, Virginia... It's in Prince William County here. about 0:04:52

History, in brief

1975

The area takes its name from Thomas Mason's 1975 wooden toll bridge, built to supplant the existing ferry and carrying Kings Highway traffic across the river.

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Town note

He had Mason's Wood Bridge Plantation, which is a golf course now.

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1807

The original bridge washed away in 1807 after a heavy storm and was never rebuilt on that spot; the crossing was shifted to another area.

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Town note

The bridge was not replaced until the mid-twentieth century, when a small iron bridge was built.

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All 5 history facts

1975

The area takes its name from Thomas Mason's 1975 wooden toll bridge, built to supplant the existing ferry and carrying Kings Highway traffic across the river.

about 0:06:09

Town note

He had Mason's Wood Bridge Plantation, which is a golf course now.

about 0:06:29

1807

The original bridge washed away in 1807 after a heavy storm and was never rebuilt on that spot; the crossing was shifted to another area.

about 0:06:39

Town note

The bridge was not replaced until the mid-twentieth century, when a small iron bridge was built.

about 0:07:16

1972

The iron bridge, as the town's website puts it, failed in 1972 during Hurricane Agnes, and was replaced by the current structure.

about 0:07:23

The figures, as told

Religious

38%

Biggest faith: Jewish residents, 0.1%

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Who lives here

White 62% · Black 15% · Asian 6.7% · Hispanic 20%

Ethnicity can overlap race.

Crime / national average

Property crime
▲ slightly above average

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Violent crime
▼ just slightly over half the national average

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Money

Median home value$408,100
Two-bedroom rent$1,637 a month
Median household income$109,196
Cost of living119

For sale

$329,000

Three-bedroom, three-bath townhouse, 1,440 square feet

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For sale

$419,000

Three-bedroom, two-bath house, 1,466 square feet

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For sale

$1,130,000

Four-bedroom, four-bath house, 5,000 square feet

about 0:19:37
All figures and comparisons, as told in 2022

Property crime

"slightly above average"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: above.

As told in 2022 about 0:23:30

Violent crime

"just slightly over half the national average"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2022 about 0:23:45

Population

"4,668"

No direction stated.

As told in 2022 about 0:15:28

Median age

"around thirty nine"

Comparison: "about normal". Direction: about the same.

As told in 2022 about 0:15:39

White residents

"62%"

Comparison: "57% around the country". No direction stated.

As told in 2022 about 0:15:59

Black residents

"15%"

Comparison: "12.7% around the country". No direction stated.

As told in 2022 about 0:15:59

Asian residents

"6.7%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2022 about 0:15:59

Hispanic residents

"20%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2022 about 0:15:59

Unemployment rate

"about the national average"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: about the same.

As told in 2022 about 0:17:04

Religious residents

"38%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2022 about 0:16:41

Jewish residents

"0.1%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2022 about 0:16:49

Median household income

"$109,196"

Comparison: "about double the national average". Direction: above.

As told in 2022 about 0:17:10

Cost of living index

"119"

Comparison: "100 is average". Direction: above.

As told in 2022 about 0:17:20

Median home cost

"$408,100"

Comparison: "above the national average". Direction: above.

As told in 2022 about 0:17:27

Average two-bedroom rent

"$1,637 a month"

Comparison: "above the national average". Direction: above.

As told in 2022 about 0:17:50

Three-bedroom, three-bath townhouse, 1,440 square feet

"$329,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2022 about 0:18:40

Three-bedroom, two-bath house, 1,466 square feet

"$419,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2022 about 0:18:55

Four-bedroom, four-bath house, 5,000 square feet

"$1,130,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2022 about 0:19:37

The reviews

3.2 / 5 · average of 5

5 stars

“Great location, close to everything, local shops of all kinds, a plethora of restaurants and direct access into Washington DC.”
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5 stars

“The reviewer has lived there most of his life and says people who have never lived there call it Woodbridge; outsiders see it as the bad town with the most crime and drug deals, but the people are diverse and it is an indirect family, what unity looks like.”
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3 stars

“A good, friendly place with good communities and better attractions, especially the Potomac Mills Mall, where the reviewer once met Allen Iverson.”
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2 stars

“Crime and safety are poor; describes a loud domestic dispute with things thrown into the yard, a grandmother's unlocked car being entered, broken beer bottles on the road and graffiti on the tennis court.”
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1 star

“Wants less crime and more affordable living costs; has been robbed twice in two different areas; there is not much nightlife, though DC is half an hour away, and there are plenty of places for a solid meal and nice movie theatres.”
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The story

He was drafted into the army in December 1970, after a couple of years in college, and spent about three years in military counter-intelligence, safeguarding communications and detecting enemy bugs before and during the Vietnam era. By the late 1990s he was working as a civilian counter-intelligence contractor for the army at Fort Meade, Maryland, and the passion had gone out of his marriage.

Her real name was Rebecca Grag, a 30-year-old former stripper with two young sons, whose electricity and phone had been cut off. She replied to his email and they met at a Ruth's Chris steakhouse in Crystal City. She told him she needed money to turn her life around and offered non-sexual companionship in return. Three days later he wrote her a cheque for nearly $7,000. He paid her rent, bought her a green 1996 Jeep Cherokee, gave her a mobile phone and an American Express gold card in her name, paid private Catholic school fees for her sons, paid for breast enhancement surgery and helped with her custody dispute. Over 18 months he spent about $450,000 on her, selling investments to cover her credit card debts.

Grag had two sons with Robert Finch, a 30-year-old contractor who ran RF Enterprises Inc, assembling products for Home Depot and Lowe's. Finch had been in a bitter five-year custody battle with Grag; in June 2000 he obtained custody of the boys, and a final hearing was set for the first week of January 2001. He had a new girlfriend, Dana Thrall, 25, who worked at Fairfax Foods, and they were building a house together in Woodbridge, Prince William County, where they lived in a townhouse at Jousters Way with her two sons and a large mastiff called Naughty.

In the summer of 2000 he professed his love; when Grag did not reciprocate he began turning up unannounced, making elaborate excuses to see her and following Finch around. He told her he was videotaping Finch as evidence for the custody hearing; she later said he prowled around Finch's property more than a hundred times. She began avoiding his calls and, in the first days of January 2001, took her children to Florida.

At about 4 a.m. on 2 January 2001 a newspaper delivery driver, Mary Bracewell, saw a man with a flashlight beside a pickup truck parked on Belfry Lane in Woodbridge and watched him walk between two townhouses. She called the police. Fifteen minutes later Officer Marshall T. Daniel of the Prince William County Police Department was sent to Belfry Lane; he found the truck locked, with a Department of Defense sticker on the windscreen and a mobile phone on the passenger seat. At 4.27 a.m. he was redirected to a reported domestic disturbance at Jousters Way, about 300 yards away. A neighbour, Tina Miller, had been woken by a crashing sound and then heard three or four hollow sounds and the most horrible scream she had ever heard. Tommy Young, walking his dog across the street, heard two banging noises, a female scream and three more bangs, then saw the front storm door swinging open and the blinds closed.

Robert Finch had been shot three times, including once in the back of the head. Dana Thrall was shot five times, three times in the head, once in the chest and once through a finger, and had been beaten over the head with the gun. Ten bullets were recovered, all fired by the same revolver, which was never found. Investigators believed the attacker may have run out of ammunition, pistol-whipped Thrall, reloaded and shot her again. Thrall was found alive in the kitchen by Officer Sheldon R. Kremer at 4.45 a.m. and died of her injuries on 4 January. Her sons, aged six and four, had hidden upstairs and were seen peering from a back window; they were later taken in by relatives.

Officers had left the pickup truck unguarded, and by 4.38 a.m. it was gone. A bloodstain on the inside of the back gate did not match either victim or the children.

On 3 January they went to Fort Meade. He said Grag was an employee at a brewing company he owned in West Virginia, that he had given her a credit card for business purposes, and that he had been travelling separately from her over the New Year. He admitted driving to her home on New Year's Day in case Finch turned up. He denied knowing Finch and said he had spent the night of 1 to 2 January asleep in his truck at a rest area in Maryland. Later he admitted the relationship, saying he met her on Adult Friend Finders in mid-1999, and that he had driven to Finch's neighbourhood after a 3.28 a.m. call to Grag from a pay phone, claiming his mobile battery was dead.

He said he had left his truck only to urinate by a guard rail, then walked past the townhouse, but denied going on the property and denied hearing shots or a scream. A detective photographed a cut on his hand. On 7 January he was interviewed again and admitted he had been in the neighbourhood hundreds of times, though he said he never went on the property. His truck was seized on 8 January; the interior had been recently cleaned, with wet carpet and seats covered in a silicone-based cleaner. Grag was given two polygraph tests, the first inconclusive and the second showing deception.

Virginia allows the death penalty for killing more than one person within three years.

Kaine refused. He asked that his last meal not be revealed.

The case

Murder of Robert Finch and Dana Thrall

Victims

Robert Finch (30). contractor, owner of RF Enterprises Inc., father of two sons, in a custody battle with Rebecca Grag
Dana Thrall (25). Robert Finch's girlfriend, worked at Fairfax Foods, mother of two sons

Accused and outcomes

As told in the episode, on 7 July 2022.

Accused

Outcome

Other people

William Joseph Thrall. Dana Thrall's father
Jennifer. Robert Finch's younger sister and a friend of Dana Thrall
Detective Hoffman. Prince William County detective on the case
Henry Asbill. one of defence attorneys
Robert Willett. prosecutor
Mary Bracewell. newspaper delivery driver who saw the man and called police
Tina Miller. neighbour who reported the domestic disturbance
Tommy Young. neighbour walking his dog who heard the shots and the scream

The timeline

  1. 1950 is born.about 0:34:58
  2. December 1970 is drafted into the army after dropping out of college.about 0:29:05
  3. early 1970s He spends about three years in army counter-intelligence, then later works as a civilian contractor at Fort Meade. (Fort Meade)about 0:30:05
  4. spring of 1999 sees Bunny 469's profile on Adult Friend Finders and emails her.about 0:47:12
  5. spring of 1999 They meet at a Ruth's Chris steakhouse in Crystal City and she offers non-sexual companionship for money. (Ruth's Chris Steak House)about 0:50:02
  6. three days later writes Rebecca Grag a cheque for nearly $7,000.about 0:52:25
  7. 1999 to 2001 Over 18 months he spends about $450,000 on her, paying rent, school fees, a car, a credit card and breast surgery.about 0:58:43
  8. June 2000 Robert Finch obtains custody of his and Rebecca's two sons.about 2:06:07
  9. summer of 2000 professes his love and begins turning up unannounced and following Finch.about 0:59:59
  10. October 2000 Rebecca later claims in court that she and Robert Finch had sex.about 2:05:32
  11. December 29th or 30th, 2000 says he touched the back gate of the townhouse, the likely source of the blood found there. (Finch and Thrall townhouse)about 2:36:00
  12. January 1, 2001 Rebecca is due to return the children to Finch at 2 p.m. but says she is delayed in Florida; drives to her house in case Finch turns up. (Rebecca Grag's residence)about 1:38:13
  13. January 2, 2001, 3:20 a.m. is seen on video surveillance buying coffee at a 7-Eleven. (7-Eleven)about 2:33:25
  14. January 2, 2001, 3:28 a.m. A pay phone call is placed to Rebecca Grag's mobile phone.about 1:44:30
  15. January 2, 2001, about 4 a.m. Mary Bracewell sees a man with a flashlight beside a pickup truck on Belfry Lane and calls police. (Belfry Lane)about 1:15:53
  16. January 2, 2001, 4:15 a.m. Officer Marshall T. Daniel is sent to Belfry Lane and finds the locked truck with a Department of Defense sticker and a mobile phone inside. (Belfry Lane)about 1:17:32
  17. January 2, 2001, about 4:20 a.m. Tina Miller hears a crash, three or four hollow sounds and a scream, and reports a domestic disturbance. (Finch and Thrall townhouse)about 1:19:12
  18. January 2, 2001, 4:27 a.m. Officer Daniel is redirected to Jousters Way. (Finch and Thrall townhouse)about 1:18:21
  19. January 2, 2001, 4:38 a.m. The pickup truck is gone from Belfry Lane. (Belfry Lane)about 1:26:43
  20. January 2, 2001, 4:45 a.m. Officer Sheldon R. Kremer enters and finds Dana Thrall alive in the kitchen. (Finch and Thrall townhouse)about 1:27:20
  21. January 2, 2001, 9:30 a.m. Robert Finch's parents arrive to find the street blocked off. (Finch and Thrall townhouse)about 2:01:55
  22. January 3, 2001 Detectives travel to Fort Meade and find truck, with a flashlight, phone and box of bandages on the seat. (Fort Meade)about 1:34:39
  23. January 4, 2001 Dana Thrall dies of her injuries.about 1:46:16

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