FILE 537 / 17 October 2024 / 160 MIN / full

The Ballad Of Bambi

Nixonville, South CarolinaListen

The town

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We're going to Nixonville, South Carolina; it is in Horry County, down by Myrtle Beach. about 0:04:13

History, in brief

Town note

The area was very isolated, surrounded by rivers, swamps and the ocean, and locals called Horry County the independent Republic of Horry.

about 0:05:10

1743

Horry County is named after Revolutionary War hero Peter Horry, who was born in 1743.

about 0:05:24

2012

A bronze statue of Peter Horry on a stone base was put up in 2012 at a cost of $16,200.

about 0:06:04

1970

The population has increased more than fourfold since 1970.

about 0:06:17
All 5 history facts

Town note

The area was very isolated, surrounded by rivers, swamps and the ocean, and locals called Horry County the independent Republic of Horry.

about 0:05:10

1743

Horry County is named after Revolutionary War hero Peter Horry, who was born in 1743.

about 0:05:24

2012

A bronze statue of Peter Horry on a stone base was put up in 2012 at a cost of $16,200.

about 0:06:04

1970

The population has increased more than fourfold since 1970.

about 0:06:17

The figures, as told

Who lives here

White about 85% · Hispanic 6.6% · Black 3.7% · Asian 4.2%

Ethnicity can overlap race.

Crime / national average

Assault rate
▼ 1.297 per 1,000 residents

about 0:23:22

Overall safety
91st percentile

about 0:23:09

Murder rate safety
86th percentile

about 0:23:35

Money

Median home value$229,925
Median household income$73,997

For sale

$195,000

Four-bedroom, five-bath house listing

about 0:15:40

For sale

$265,000

Four-bedroom, three-bath house listing

about 0:16:24

For sale

$890,000

Four-bedroom, four-bath house listing

about 0:17:21
All figures and comparisons, as told in 2024

Assault rate

"1.297 per 1,000 residents"

Comparison: "much lower than the U.S. average city". Direction: below.

As told in 2024 about 0:23:22

Overall safety

"91st percentile"

Comparison: "9% of cities are safer". No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:23:09

Murder rate safety

"86th percentile"

Comparison: "86% of cities are more murdery". No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:23:35

Population

"1,167"

Comparison: "about almost 1,200 people in the area". No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:12:53

Median age

"almost 48 years old"

Comparison: "about ten years past the national average". No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:13:16

Single parents

"6%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:13:32

Households without children

"75%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:13:52

White residents

"about 85%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:14:02

Hispanic residents

"6.6%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:14:02

Black residents

"3.7%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:14:02

Asian residents

"4.2%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:14:02

Median household income

"$73,997"

Comparison: "just above the national average". Direction: above.

As told in 2024 about 0:14:12

Median home price

"$229,925"

Comparison: "the regular median home price of $318,879". No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:14:29

Four-bedroom, five-bath house listing

"$195,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:15:40

Four-bedroom, three-bath house listing

"$265,000"

Comparison: "beneath the average here". No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:16:24

Four-bedroom, four-bath house listing

"$890,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:17:21

The reviews

3.0 / 5 · average of 6

5 stars

“A lifelong resident likes the community, says it takes people time to get used to outsiders, dislikes the amount of shooting and likes being close to the beach.”
about 0:07:35

4 stars

“Several years there have been a good experience, with good public schools, affordable housing developments and tourist attractions.”
about 0:08:16

3 stars

“Myrtle Beach is the main attraction, with good nightlife and plenty to do, but attractions are expensive; Medieval Times costs $36.95 for children 12 and under.”
about 0:08:35

3 stars

“A great community after 18 years, but horrible summer traffic, too many home developments and county jobs going to friends.”
about 0:09:54

2 stars

“Horry County is letting hoodlums take over the grandstand, with loud jacked-up trucks racing engines and blowing airhorns all night.”
about 0:11:22

1 star

“A good old boy county, crime ridden, with nothing but bars and strip joints and not family oriented at all.”
about 0:11:57

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The story

Nixonville is not a town in its own right but an unincorporated community in Horry County, in eastern South Carolina, about twenty minutes from Myrtle Beach. The area was long isolated by rivers, swamps and the ocean, and locals once called the county the independent Republic of Horry. By the 2000s it was a quiet, rural place where retired people and second-home owners were moving in, and where gunshots were common enough that neighbours did not always notice them.

Diane Mills was born in Spartanburg in 1950. She married David Livingston at about twenty and in 1971 had a daughter, Bambi. The marriage ended in the late 1970s or early 1980s. Diane met Charles Edward Parker at the Tilly Swamp Baptist Church; both were born in 1950, and Charlie had lived in the Conway area all his life. He owned and ran Mirror Tech, a business on his own property about 150 yards from the house, was a past master of the Horry Masonic Lodge and was deeply involved in the church. They married and had a son, Charlie Parker Jr. People described both Diane and Charlie as devout in the best sense, always ready to help and never judging.

In 1990, while going through a divorce, she deeded the property to her mother so her husband could not claim half of it. Diane then mortgaged the land and sold several parcels without telling her daughter, reducing it to about sixty-seven acres, and she refused to deed it back. Bambi married three times and had four children: two sons born in 1991 and 1993, and two daughters. In 1999 Diane went to court seeking custody of the two boys, saying they had lived with her for three years and that Bambi's behaviour had become erratic. Charlie Parker Sr. swore an affidavit saying Bambi had a serious drug problem and had been through two programmes. Bambi said she had fibromyalgia, diagnosed in 1994, and took only doctor-prescribed medication. The family court let her keep the boys.

By 2005 Bambi was still married to her third husband, Charlie Bennett, though they had been apart for years. He met Bambi after being hired at Mirror Tech, and they began dating around 2003. Charlie Parker Sr. fired him in January 2005.

In April 2005 the region was already frightened by a manhunt for Stephen Stanko, wanted for a sexual assault and two killings in Murrells Inlet and Conway. On the morning of 12 April 2005, Charlie Parker Sr. was so late for work that his employee George Carrick and his son Charlie Jr. walked over to the house at about seven o'clock. They found Diane on the floor at the entrance to the master bedroom and Charlie Sr. on the bathroom floor, both shot and both surrounded by blood. Diane had been shot twice in the chest and once in the left arm, and had a fractured collarbone and bruises all over her. Charlie Sr. had been shot twice in the abdomen and once in the face. Eight 9mm rounds had been fired and six had hit. The glass in the kitchen door was broken, a keepsake box had been rummaged through, and paperwork from a woman's boot was spread across the bed. Diane's purse and Charlie's wallet were left on the bed. Stanko was found in Georgia the same day and quickly ruled out.

Bambi inherited everything, including the house, the business and about $700,000 from a trust fund.

Bambi's uncle Tim Johnson told the judge that if she could kill her mother she would kill anyone, and other relatives said they feared for their lives.

Bambi was not called to testify because she had given different versions of events. I went into a rage.' The prosecutor said the investigation was not over because the blood at the scene still matched nobody connected to the family.

In 2007 the Charlotte Observer published a long article about Bambi. She said she had been portrayed as a monster, that she had passed two independent polygraph tests, that she had regained guardianship of her daughters but lost custody of her sons, and that she had not spoken to the boys since October 2005. The boys had gone to Texas with their father, then to Pennsylvania, and were later left with Charlie Parker Jr. In 2009 the DNA from the four blood drops produced a match. He was also linked to a rubber glove found after a home invasion at Sun Colony Boulevard in Longs on 17 October 2006.

The defence called no witnesses. The prosecutor said it had taken four years for the truth to break out of its shell.

In February 2013 he was granted a $50,000 bond while awaiting retrial. By 2021 he had settled on the Carolina coast, married and had children.

Bambi Bennett, who was fifty-three in 2024, was by then describing herself on Instagram as a wife, mother, grandmother and paranormal investigator. Diane and Charlie Parker Sr. are buried together at crest Cemetery in Conway.

In November 2013 he shot Brent Writer, his mother's boyfriend, in the chest with a 12-gauge shotgun at his mother's home in the Indian Springs area. He claimed self-defence, saying Writer had hit his mother, but detectives found that his story changed several times and that he had a history of assaulting his mother himself.

The case

Murders of Diane and Charlie Parker

Victims

Diane Parker (54). school secretary; Bambi Bennett's mother
Charles Edward Parker Sr. (54). owner of Mirror Tech; Bambi Bennett's stepfather

Accused and outcomes

As told in the episode, on 17 October 2024.

Accused

Accused

Outcome

Other people

Charlie Parker Jr.. Charlie Parker Sr.'s son; found the bodies with George Carrick
George Carrick. Mirror Tech employee who found the bodies
Jennifer Parker. Diane's sister-in-law, who handled the estate
Tim Johnson. Bambi's uncle and family spokesman
Ava May Offerman. mother, who testified for the prosecution
Caleel Moore. former Mirror Tech employee pulled over with
Greg Hembry. prosecutor
Bill Grammer. defence attorney
Bob Dudek. appellate attorney
Ron Hazard. attorney

The timeline

  1. 1950 Diane Mills is born in Spartanburg, South Carolina. (Spartanburg)about 0:24:16
  2. 1950 Charles Edward Parker is born in Conway, South Carolina. (Conway)about 0:26:22
  3. about 1970 Diane marries David Livingston when she is about 20.about 0:24:51
  4. 1971 Bambi Livingston is born.about 0:25:14
  5. late 1970s Diane and David Livingston divorce.about 0:25:23
  6. Diane meets Charlie Parker at the Tilly Swamp Baptist Church and later marries him. (Tilly Swamp Baptist Church)about 0:26:13
  7. 1983 David Livingston dies; 12-year-old Bambi inherits about 100 acres and a house.about 0:29:06
  8. 1990 While divorcing, Bambi deeds the property, including the house, to her mother.about 0:32:23
  9. 1999 Diane seeks custody of Bambi's two sons; the family court lets Bambi keep her children. (Horry County court)about 0:35:08
  10. 2003 is hired at Mirror Tech and begins dating Bambi. (Mirror Tech)about 0:42:06
  11. January 2005 is fired from his job at Mirror Tech by Charlie Parker Sr. (Mirror Tech)about 0:47:33
  12. evening of April 11, 2005 Diane and Charlie Parker Sr. are shot at home sometime between the evening of April 11 and 7:30 a.m. on April 12. (Parker house)about 0:53:55

Murder of Brent Writer

Victims

Brent Writer. Deborah boyfriend, who lived with her

Accused and outcomes

As told in the episode, on 17 October 2024.

Accused

Outcome

Other people

Ricky Childers. detective who responded to the shooting

The timeline

  1. August 2013 Deborah meets Brent Writer and later lets him move in. (Deborah 's house)about 2:21:27
  2. October 2013 Deborah buys a 12-gauge shotgun; Writer talked her into buying it.about 2:23:28
  3. November 6, 2013 Writer argues with Deborah at her home and throws an ashtray at her. (Deborah 's house)about 2:24:17
  4. November 2013 shoots Brent Writer in the chest with a 12-gauge shotgun. (Deborah 's house)about 2:14:46

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