FILE 639 / 16 October 2025 / 183 MIN / full

My Imaginary Murder Friend

Riceboro, GeorgiaListen

The town

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We are going down to Georgia this week. We're going to Riceborough. It's in Liberty County. about 0:05:22

History, in brief

Town note

The community was named for the rice industry that was there.

about 0:06:17

1835

Riceboro was the second county seat of Liberty County, holding that role for about forty years, from the late 1700s to about 1835.

about 0:06:38

Town note

It was first incorporated as the Village of Riceborough, with the GH, which was later dropped.

about 0:06:45
All 3 history facts

Town note

The community was named for the rice industry that was there.

about 0:06:17

1835

Riceboro was the second county seat of Liberty County, holding that role for about forty years, from the late 1700s to about 1835.

about 0:06:38

Town note

It was first incorporated as the Village of Riceborough, with the GH, which was later dropped.

about 0:06:45

The figures, as told

Religious

27%

about 0:10:02

Who lives here

White 7.5% · Black 87.6% · Hispanic 0%

Ethnicity can overlap race.

Crime / national average

Property crime
▲ slightly above

about 0:18:58

Violent crime
▼ just under

about 0:19:06

Money

Median home value$119,500
Two-bedroom rent$910
Median household income$40,911 a year
Cost of living79
All figures and comparisons, as told in 2025

Median age

"52.3"

Comparison: "15 years older than the national average". Direction: above.

As told in 2025 about 0:09:11

Married

"49.2%"

Comparison: "about average". Direction: about the same.

As told in 2025 about 0:09:29

Single with children

"12%"

Comparison: "about average". Direction: about the same.

As told in 2025 about 0:09:29

Hawaiian Pacific Islander

"3.5%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2025 about 0:09:48

Unemployment

"about half"

Comparison: "the national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2025 about 0:10:20

Religious

"27%"

Comparison: "usually 50-50 is the normal". Direction: below.

As told in 2025 about 0:10:02

Median household income

"$40,911 a year"

Comparison: "almost $30,000 below the national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2025 about 0:10:26

Cost of living

"79"

Comparison: "100 is the national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2025 about 0:10:41

Median home cost

"$119,500"

No direction stated.

As told in 2025 about 0:10:49

Average two-bedroom rent

"$910"

Comparison: "well below the national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2025 about 0:11:58

Property crime

"slightly above"

Comparison: "the national average". Direction: above.

As told in 2025 about 0:18:58

Violent crime

"just under"

Comparison: "the national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2025 about 0:19:06

The reviews

5.0 / 5 · average of 2

5 stars

“A very small but growing community, beautiful, with festivals and so many activities, where everyone is one big family.”
about 0:06:58

5 stars

“Crystal West calls it a small rural town with a lot of history and great-loving people, southern hospitality, more of a senior and retirement area, with nightlife fifteen minutes away in Hainesville and the best seafood at Captain Joe's.”
about 0:07:36

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The story

He studied at Boston University, Northeastern Law School and Georgetown, where he took an LLM in national security and cybersecurity. He was commissioned as a Navy officer in June 2006, served as a JAG, completed two tours in Iraq, prosecuted courts martial in Sicily and by 2008 was defending naval personnel in Norfolk. In 2009 he married Heather, and the couple struggled to conceive because of a medical condition; she declined fertility treatment and they had no children. By 2015 he was working at the Pentagon in the International and Operational Law Division, managing agreements with navies worldwide, and the couple lived at Adrian Drive in Alexandria, Virginia.

The marriage ended in divorce in 2016. In the divorce hearings he claimed to have millions of dollars, and the settlement required him to pay Heather $1.5 million. He never paid her a penny. Three weeks after the divorce he met Mindy Ruth Mebane on OkCupid. Mindy, born around 1982, was the eldest of three siblings, the daughter of Frank III, a minister, and Betsy, and the family was close-knit and religious. She had a bachelor's degree from Armstrong State University and a master's in public and international affairs from Virginia Tech, and had worked as a legal secretary before moving into the nonprofit sector. Their first date was at the Black Wall Hitch restaurant in Alexandria, and they married on 9 October 2016 at Morven Park in Leesburg, Virginia.

In the summer of 2016 Nick's name appeared in a Washington Post article about a Marine court martial involving classified information; he had written the legal memo quoted in it. From late 2017, he said, an FBI agent named Jim McIntyre came to the house after Nick reported bank accounts being drained, mail going missing, vandalism, nails in the tyres and anonymous death threats. McIntyre, he said, blamed overseas hackers targeting military members and then, later, told him that his father Wayne was behind the local harassment, that Wayne was not his biological father, and that Wayne wanted him back in the family with Mindy as the obstacle.

The couple began moving constantly. Over four to six years they moved somewhere between fifty and a hundred times, across Virginia, South Carolina and Georgia, living out of plastic bins and communicating only through the Signal app. Nick said he had $32 million in stock from a software company called Apis Limited, held in a trust that McIntyre managed. In reality, a Navy friend, Cameron Nelson, had given him her credit card details to cover a rental in an emergency, and he ran up $200,000 on it over a few years.

In November 2019 the couple moved to Charlottesville, Virginia, where Nick said he was beaten with a baseball bat and kicked in the face. He called neither the police nor a hospital. In February 2021 the whole group, including Mindy's parents, moved into the Hilton Head house of her brother Frank IV, a police officer, and stayed sixteen months. In March 2022 Mindy announced that she was pregnant. In June 2022, after Frank IV evicted them, they moved into East 65th Street in Savannah, an Airbnb bungalow costing $4,500 a month. Nick said he had just sold a short horror story to Sony for $300,000, and on 27 July 2022 he bought a 2022 Ford Explorer for $46,000 in cash.

He sent her flowers, and in November he paid for four new tyres and headlights on her car.

Mindy's parents left for Hilton Head on Wednesday 23 November 2022. On Saturday 26 November Mindy texted Nick that she was going to hospital, and she was never seen alive again. The medical examiner later placed death between 27 and 30 November. On Monday 28 November Nick bought a seven-piece deer processing kit at Bass Pro Shops. On Tuesday 29 November he left the Savannah house at 8.30am, bought a Milwaukee knife at the Home Depot on Abercorn Street at 8.56am, drove south on Interstate 95, stopped at a Marathon station in Midway at 10.30am and switched his phone off at 11am. The Explorer's GPS showed it entering the Portal Hunting Club near Riceboro through Jones Road at 11.15am and staying within a three-mile radius for two hours. His phone came back on at 1pm, a Riceboro town camera caught him leaving at 1.30pm and by 3pm he was back in Savannah getting the car washed.

On 1 December a man at a birthing centre somewhere in the Savannah area told him that Mindy had died suddenly, apparently after being left alone in a bathroom. He told her family that she had died at the birthing centre from a stroke or heart problem and that the baby had not survived. He later collected what he was told were her ashes from a man on the side of a road in Montgomery, Alabama, paying $5,000 in cash for a bag that also contained her engagement and wedding rings.

On 2 December at 4.50pm the hunter David Owen Lovett shot a deer at the Portal Hunting Club and his dogs led him to a headless, legless torso. Investigators found a black plastic tote, a red-handled Milwaukee knife wrapped in Clorox wipes and more than a dozen wipes scattered around. On 3 December the hunter Philip McCaller found a right leg 2.5 miles away, on 5 December cadaver dogs found the left leg, and on 7 December GBI agent Lindsey Smith noticed disturbed earth beneath a pine tree and, three feet down, found the head. The autopsy showed nine lacerations to the head, one causing a skull fracture, defensive wounds on the arms and hands, cuts and bruising to the chest and abdomen, and tool marks on the bones consistent with power tools. She had not been pregnant, and a non-lethal dose of Benadryl was found in her liver tissue.

Heather recognised the forensic sketch as Mindy and contacted the GBI. On 20 March 2023 Nick claimed that his Explorer had exploded into flames with an $860,000 cashier's cheque inside. On 11 May 2023 DNA from Betsy confirmed that the body was Mindy's. He waived his rights and talked for two hours, describing McIntyre, the trust and a red-headed man to whom he said he had handed two totes and swapped cars. In a second interview in Georgia later in May, told that his wife's body had been found, he said, "That's impossible, she was cremated", and then, "Jim must have lied to me". Asked to describe McIntyre, he said average height and average build. Told that his car had kept transmitting location data while his phone was off, he said, "I didn't know cars could do that".

Samantha annulled the marriage. The defence argued that he had lived in genuine fear of McIntyre for years. Betsy, the medical examiner, the Airbnb owner and the toolmark and DNA analysts testified. Nick took the stand and repeated the story of McIntyre, the $32 million, his father's plot and the roadside ashes; the gallery laughed when he said he had been unhappy with his wife's care.

The case

Murder of Mindy Casodis

Victims

Mindy Ruth Mebane Casodis (about 40). Nick's second wife, a former legal secretary who moved into nonprofit work; she believed she was eight months pregnant

Accused and outcomes

As told in the episode, on 16 October 2025.

Accused

Outcome

Other people

Heather Casodis. Nick's first wife; awarded a $1.5 million settlement he never paid, and her tip identified Mindy from the forensic sketch
Frank III. Mindy's father, a minister in North Carolina
Betsy. Mindy's mother; her DNA sample identified the body
Frank IV. Mindy's brother, a police officer in Hilton Head, who took the family in and later evicted them
Matthew. Mindy's brother, for whom Nick claimed the deer processing kit was a Christmas gift
Cameron Nelson. Nick's Navy friend, whose credit card he ran up to $200,000
Chris. Nick's brother
David Owen Lovett. hunter who found the torso
Philip McCaller. hunter who found the right leg
Lindsey Smith. GBI agent who found the buried head
Morgan Paddock. Mindy's best friend, who gave a victim impact statement
James Burney. FBI analyst who tracked the Explorer

The timeline

  1. around 1982 is born in Chambersburg, Pennsylvania.about 0:20:14
  2. around 1982 Mindy Ruth Mebane is born.about 0:37:41
  3. June 2006 Nick is commissioned as a Navy officer and begins work as a JAG.about 0:22:11
  4. 2009 Nick marries Heather.about 0:25:11
  5. 2015 Nick works at the Pentagon in the International and Operational Law Division and lives in Alexandria, Virginia. (Adrian Drive)about 0:32:45
  6. 2016 Nick and Heather divorce; he agrees to pay her a $1.5 million settlement.about 0:35:28
  7. the summer of 2016 Nick's name appears in a Washington Post article about a Marine court martial involving classified information, quoting a legal memo he wrote.about 0:43:14
  8. October 9, 2016 Nick marries Mindy at Morven Park in Leesburg, Virginia. (Morven Park)about 0:47:02
  9. late 2017 Nick says the harassment resumes and that an FBI agent named Jim McIntyre comes to the house. (Adrian Drive)about 0:54:18
  10. late 2018 Nick is told he has received millions in stock options; McIntyre sets up a trust to hold the money.about 1:11:25
  11. November 2019 The couple moves to Charlottesville, Virginia, where Nick says he is beaten with a baseball bat and kicked in the face.about 1:19:02
  12. February 2021 Nick, Mindy and her parents move into Frank IV's house in Hilton Head, South Carolina, staying 16 months. (Frank IV's house)about 1:22:20
  13. March 2022 Mindy announces that she is pregnant. (Frank IV's house)about 1:23:29
  14. June 2022 After being evicted, they move into East 65th Street in Savannah, an Airbnb bungalow at $4,500 a month. (East 65th Street)about 1:26:18
  15. July 27, 2022 Nick buys a 2022 Ford Explorer with $46,000 in cash. (Savannah)about 1:27:28
  16. September 24, 2022 Nick sends a Twitter message to horror author Samantha Kolesnik after buying all four of her novels.about 1:28:54
  17. September 30, 2022 Nick files a police report claiming his father Wayne assaulted him.about 1:31:42
  18. November 4, 2022 Nick buys a shovel and a hammer at Home Depot. (Home Depot)about 2:36:09
  19. November 23, 2022 Frank III and Betsy leave for Hilton Head, leaving Mindy at home eight months pregnant. (East 65th Street)about 1:33:46
  20. November 26, 2022 Mindy texts Nick that she is going to hospital; she is not seen alive again. (East 65th Street)about 1:33:51
  21. November 27, 2022 The medical examiner's estimated date of death, later placed between November 27 and 30. (East 65th Street)about 2:01:14
  22. November 28, 2022 Nick buys a seven-piece deer processing kit at Bass Pro Shops. (Bass Pro Shops)about 1:36:36
  23. November 29, 2022 Nick leaves Savannah at 8.30am, buys a Milwaukee knife at the Home Depot on Abercorn Street at 8.56am, switches his phone off at 11am and drives to the Portal Hunting Club. (Portal Hunting Club)about 2:01:34
  24. November 29, 2022 The Explorer's GPS shows it entering the hunting club via Jones Road at 11.15am and staying in a three-mile radius for two hours, then Nick returns to Savannah for a car wash. (Jones Road)about 2:02:33
  25. November 30, 2022 Frank III has hip surgery at St. Joseph's Hospital and Nick visits him, saying Mindy is still in hospital. (St. Joseph's Hospital)about 1:38:37
  26. December 1, 2022 A man at a birthing centre in the Savannah area tells Nick that Mindy died suddenly; he goes home and tells the family the baby died too. (birthing centre)about 1:39:39

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