FILE 660 / 27 December 2025 / 71 MIN / express

Bloody Plot Twists

Minden, NevadaListen

The town

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So this is Minden, Nevada... It's in far western Nevada, near the California border over there. about 0:03:29

History, in brief

1906

Founded in 1906 by Heinrich Frederick Dangberg Jr., who named it after his town of Minden in Germany.

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Town note

A large share of the first people in the area were Germans.

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Town note

It was founded on land of the Dangberg Home Ranch, and the Dangberg Commission put up most of the town's early buildings.

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All 7 history facts

1906

Founded in 1906 by Heinrich Frederick Dangberg Jr., who named it after his town of Minden in Germany.

about 0:04:47

Town note

A large share of the first people in the area were Germans.

about 0:05:03

Town note

It was founded on land of the Dangberg Home Ranch, and the Dangberg Commission put up most of the town's early buildings.

about 0:05:08

1917

A sundown siren sounded at 6 p.m. every night from 1917 until 2021; it signalled that members of the Washoe Indian tribe were required to leave town or face jail time.

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Town note

The sundown ordinance was repealed in the mid-1970s.

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2021

In 2021 Nevada passed a law prohibiting communities from sounding signals associated with a past law that required persons of a particular race, ethnicity, ancestry or national origin to leave town by a certain time.

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The figures, as told

Money

Median home value$649,700
Median household income$78,375
All figures and comparisons, as told in 2025

Population

"3,335"

No direction stated.

As told in 2025 about 0:04:10

Median household income

"$78,375"

Comparison: "national average, $69,000". No direction stated.

As told in 2025 about 0:04:19

Median home cost

"$649,700"

No direction stated.

As told in 2025 about 0:04:27

The reviews

4.3 / 5 · average of 4

5 stars

“The best place to live if you want a good look at what it is like to farm.”
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5 stars

“People here are very country and really care about how children are raised; other places never felt like Minden.”
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5 stars

“A safe place to live and have fun, with many activities nearby, and little but not too little.”
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2 stars

“Wants more diversity in the culture and restaurants, asking for a Chinese or Mexican place.”
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In Nevada

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  3. Murder On Slide MountainIncline Village, Nevada · 11 January 202537 km / 23 miShow on map
  4. Maybe Satan Did ItDayton, Nevada · 2 August 201839 km / 24 miShow on map
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The story

Benjamin Robert Oxley was born on January 20th, 1972 in West Covina, California, and grew up in Hawaii after the family moved to the big island when he was ten. He graduated from high school in 1990, worked at a country inn, and later moved to the mainland. Ben then met Melissa online, and the two married; Melissa's teenage brother Craig lived with them, and shortly after the wedding Ben and Melissa were granted full custody of Alyssa. The family settled in Minden, Nevada.

At about 3.30 a.m. on February 21st, 2008, Melissa called 911 from the family home in Minden and said there was blood everywhere and she could not wake Ben. She told officers she had heard a noise, smelled gun smoke, found the front door open and then realised her husband had been shot in the head. Ben was dead in the master bedroom from a shotgun wound to the back of the skull, and there was no sign of a break-in. Deputies found shotgun shells in Craig's bedroom and guns, including a shotgun, in the garage. Craig, seventeen, said he had been asleep and heard nothing.

Alyssa, then six, told police she had heard a door creak and seen a figure in the house, but could not say who it was.

Three months after the murder investigators learned that Melissa was the beneficiary of a 400,000 dollar life insurance policy on Ben, but the insurance company said she had never enquired about it, and she said she had not known it existed.

Melissa raised Alyssa and later took in Alyssa's half-sister Brandy.

The case

Murder of Benjamin Robert Oxley

Victims

Benjamin Robert Oxley. Known as Ben; husband of Melissa, father of Alyssa, originally from West Covina, California and raised in Hawaii

Accused and outcomes

As told in the episode, on 27 December 2025.

Accused

Accused

Outcome

Other people

Alyssa Oxley. Ben and daughter, six at the time of the murder; asked to speak to at ten and forgave him
Jim N. Earl. Douglas County Justice of the Peace named in David lawsuit
Brandy. Alyssa's half-sister, later taken in by Melissa

The timeline

  1. January 20th, 1972 Benjamin Robert Oxley is bornabout 0:09:09
  2. October 1972 is bornabout 0:13:04
  3. age 10 Ben moves to the big island of Hawaiiabout 0:09:55
  4. 1990 Ben graduates from high school in Hawaiiabout 0:11:26
  5. 1997 Ben meets about 0:12:56
  6. 1999 Ben and marryabout 0:13:08
  7. 2004 Ben and divorce after an acrimonious splitabout 0:13:32
  8. after his divorce Ben meets Melissa online and they start datingabout 0:13:47
  9. shortly after the wedding Ben and Melissa are granted full custody of Alyssaabout 0:17:14
  10. January 2008 becomes intimate with , about six weeks before the murderabout 0:45:26
  11. February 20th, 2008 and drunkenly discuss killing Ben, and Devin overhears ( 's house)about 0:42:00
  12. February 21st, 2008, about 3:30 a.m. enters through a sliding glass door and shoots Ben in the back of the head as he sleeps (Oxley house)about 0:52:29
  13. February 21st, 2008, about 3:30 a.m. Melissa calls 911 and says there is blood everywhere and she cannot wake Ben (Oxley house)about 0:19:57
  14. February 21st, 2008 Deputies find Ben dead; shotgun shells are found in Craig's room and guns, including a shotgun, in the garage (Oxley house)about 0:24:49
  15. February 21st, 2008 Alyssa tells police she heard a door creak and saw a figure in the house (Oxley house)about 0:29:40
  16. three months after the murder Investigators learn Melissa is the beneficiary of Ben's $400,000 life insurance policyabout 0:33:24
  17. five months after the murder Attention returns to , who had been ordered to pay $250 a month in child supportabout 0:36:28
  18. 2008 7-Eleven surveillance shows in the store when he claimed to have been home all night (7-Eleven)about 0:38:33
  19. before the plea Prosecutors decide not to seek the death penalty against about 1:00:05
  20. May 2012 A Dateline episode airs featuring Melissa and ten-year-old Alyssaabout 1:03:40
  21. after 2014 Melissa takes in Alyssa's half-sister Brandyabout 1:06:25

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