FILE 115 / 18 April 2019 / 146 MIN / full

A Game Of Pray, Marry, Kill

Lititz, PennsylvaniaListen

The town

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It's Litits, Pennsylvania... This is in Lancaster County... this is Amish Country. about 0:06:48

History, in brief

1756

Lititz was founded by members of the Moravian Church in 1756.

about 0:09:17

Town note

It was named after a castle whose Czech name was Litice.

about 0:09:21

1722

The Moravians were original exiles who fled from Moravia to Saxony in 1722 to escape religious persecution, and eventually came to Pennsylvania.

about 0:09:50

Town note

They came for missionary work and to escape persecution, and were big on personal piety, missions and music.

about 0:10:16
All 14 history facts

1756

Lititz was founded by members of the Moravian Church in 1756.

about 0:09:17

Town note

It was named after a castle whose Czech name was Litice.

about 0:09:21

1722

The Moravians were original exiles who fled from Moravia to Saxony in 1722 to escape religious persecution, and eventually came to Pennsylvania.

about 0:09:50

Town note

They came for missionary work and to escape persecution, and were big on personal piety, missions and music.

about 0:10:16

Town note

For over a century only Moravians were permitted to live in the town.

about 0:11:27

1855

Only members of the congregation were allowed to own houses until the mid-1800s; the lease system that let members lease land to outsiders was abolished in 1855.

about 0:12:14

Town note

During the American Revolution a big house in the town was used as a hospital, and many soldiers died there and were buried there.

about 0:12:57

1746

Linden Hall School, the oldest all-girls boarding school in the United States, was founded in 1746, a decade before the borough was incorporated, and sits on 47 acres next to a church.

about 0:14:11

Town note

Ben Franklin enabled the village to honour its pacifist convictions, and a declaration of Congress allowed the residents to continue their ban on bearing arms.

about 0:14:59

1811

The first recorded Independence Day observance was in 1811, and religious residents called it merriment and disliked it; a community-wide observance did not come until 1818.

about 0:16:50

Town note

The town holds a Queen of the Candles pageant and fireworks display, with wooden beams and trestles fitted with candle sockets and the first candle lit by the year's pageant winner.

about 0:17:42

2006

Lititz marked the 250th anniversary of the naming of the town in 2006.

about 0:19:00

Town note

Its sister city is Kunvald in the Czech Republic.

about 0:19:42

2013

In 2013 Lititz was announced as the winner of Budget Travel's America's Coolest Small Towns competition among 15 finalists.

about 0:20:41

The figures, as told

Religious

about 50-50

Biggest faith: Other Christian, 21%

about 0:24:54

Who lives here

Black 0.86% · Asian 1.68% · Hispanic 3.53%

Ethnicity can overlap race.

Crime / national average

Violent crime
▼ less than half

about 0:30:14

Money

Median home value$185,000
Two-bedroom rent$1,075
Median household income$58,375
Cost of living103

For sale

$157,000

Three-bedroom two-bath house, 1,296 square feet

about 0:27:56

For sale

$279,900

Three-bedroom two-bath house, 2,924 square feet

about 0:28:13
All figures and comparisons, as told in 2019

Property crime

"about one-third"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2019 about 0:30:07

Violent crime

"less than half"

Comparison: "national average, close to a third". Direction: below.

As told in 2019 about 0:30:14

Population

"9,269"

Comparison: "up 12% since 1990". Direction: above.

As told in 2019 about 0:21:57

Median age

"46.1"

Comparison: "about ten years older than the US average". Direction: above.

As told in 2019 about 0:22:06

Female population

"almost 57%"

Comparison: "extremely high". Direction: above.

As told in 2019 about 0:22:56

Male population

"about 43%"

Comparison: "way low". Direction: below.

As told in 2019 about 0:23:05

Married population

"about 58%"

Comparison: "higher than the 50-50 average". Direction: above.

As told in 2019 about 0:23:08

Black population

"0.86%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2019 about 0:24:29

Asian population

"1.68%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2019 about 0:24:41

Hispanic population

"3.53%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2019 about 0:24:49

Democrat voters

"37%"

Comparison: "county vote in the last election". No direction stated.

As told in 2019 about 0:25:26

Republican voters

"56%"

Comparison: "county vote in the last election". No direction stated.

As told in 2019 about 0:25:26

Independent voters

"about 6.5%"

Comparison: "county vote in the last election". No direction stated.

As told in 2019 about 0:25:26

Religious population

"about 50-50"

Comparison: "average". No direction stated.

As told in 2019 about 0:24:54

Other Christian

"21%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2019 about 0:25:11

Unemployment rate

"about 3.5%"

Comparison: "less than the average". Direction: below.

As told in 2019 about 0:25:52

Median household income

"$58,375"

Comparison: "about a thousand more than normal". Direction: above.

As told in 2019 about 0:26:09

Cost of living index

"103"

Comparison: "100 is average". Direction: about the same.

As told in 2019 about 0:26:42

Median home cost

"$185,000"

Comparison: "right around the national average". Direction: about the same.

As told in 2019 about 0:26:45

Homes between $100,000 and $300,000

"75%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2019 about 0:27:01

Homes between $100,000 and $200,000

"60%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2019 about 0:27:10

Average two-bedroom rent

"$1,075"

Comparison: "lower than the national average a little bit". Direction: below.

As told in 2019 about 0:27:38

Three-bedroom two-bath house, 1,296 square feet

"$157,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2019 about 0:27:56

Three-bedroom two-bath house, 2,924 square feet

"$279,900"

Comparison: "national average $215,000". No direction stated.

As told in 2019 about 0:28:13

Four-bedroom four-bath new construction, 4,058 square feet

"$799,900"

No direction stated.

As told in 2019 about 0:28:43

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The story

Lititz sits in Lancaster County in south-eastern Pennsylvania, about an hour and three-quarters from Philadelphia, in the middle of Amish country. It was founded in 1756 by members of the Moravian Church and named after a castle whose Czech name was Litice. For more than a century only Moravians were allowed to live there, and only congregation members could own houses until the lease system was abolished in 1855. The town is home to Linden Hall, the oldest all-girls boarding school in the United States, founded in 1746, and it holds an annual Queen of the Candles pageant. In 2013 it won Budget Travel's America's Coolest Small Towns competition.

Michael Borden was a native of Hannibal, Missouri, one of six children in a Catholic family. He put himself through Northeast Missouri State University, now Truman State, graduated in 1977 and became the first in his family to earn a degree. He studied architecture before moving into graphic design and printing, then moved to Mississippi, where he worked for a publishing firm and married his high school sweetheart, Kathy. The couple left the Catholic church around that time and later settled in North Carolina before Michael took a job with a printing company in Ephrata, Pennsylvania. In the spring of 1997 the family moved into a new house in Warwick Township, just outside Lititz. Michael became an elder and Sunday school teacher at the Plymouth Brethren church, later described as Monterey Bible Chapel, a conservative Christian congregation where the women sat apart from the men. Neighbours and colleagues remembered him as private, serious, industrious and a perfectionist. Kathy was remembered as gentle and devoted to her children, whom she homeschooled.

Kara was fourteen in 2005.

They messaged privately online because they could not behave like a couple at the group meetings. By the summer the relationship had become physical. They exchanged intimate messages and photographs. Kara's mother, Kathy, was already worried that her daughter was boy crazy and had asked friends and church members for advice. They believed in premarital chastity and had gone so far as to give their daughter Catelyn a diamond ring as a pledge to help her stay pure until marriage.

In the late winter before the spring of 2005 he took a sixteen-year-old girlfriend to his family's hunting cabin in another county without her parents' permission. He brought her back voluntarily, and both families decided not to involve the police. A friend said the girl was so traumatised that she stopped speaking for about two weeks. His friends noticed that he changed during 2005, and one recalled him saying that he could kill someone and get away with it.

That same day Kara told her parents she was sleeping over at a girlfriend's house. Her mother was waiting. Kathy confronted her, and Kara admitted she had not been where she said.

Michael lectured him for about forty-five minutes, calmly quoting scripture and explaining that the relationship was wrong, then forbade him from ever seeing Kara again and walked him to the door. The bullet passed through the brain stem and out through the forehead and was recovered from a door frame. Michael died almost immediately.

Kara's sister Catelyn, about fifteen, saw the shooting and ran into the bathroom. The bullet passed through her raised right hand before entering her skull and was later removed from her frontal lobe. Catelyn heard the second shot as she fled. She did not answer. The couple's nine-year-old brother slipped out the back door and ran to a neighbour's house to call 911.

Kara ran after the car, waving him down, and climbed in. She later said they wanted to get as far away as possible, marry and start a new life. Kara's friend Kayla Jefferies found Kara's phone on the road leading to the interstate and took it to the Lititz Borough police. The phones helped establish the direction the couple had taken.

Police treated Kara as a possible kidnap victim. The chief of police said they believed she had been taken against her will and that she was a victim until he heard otherwise. An Amber Alert was issued, the FBI joined the search because an interstate kidnapping was possible, and police across Pennsylvania and Indiana watched for the red Jetta. On the Monday morning, about twenty-four hours after the murders, a vehicle matching the description was reported at a truck stop near Fort Wayne, Indiana, but it was gone when state troopers arrived. The car was then spotted on I-70 near Belleville, Indiana.

Kara jumped out screaming, "Don't hurt him." Police recovered a .40 calibre Glock, along with a Colt .45, a Ruger .45, a Ruger Mini-14 rifle, maps, clothing and newspaper reports of the killings. Her attorney, Robert Bryer, said she was a young girl who had seen her parents murdered and should not be blamed.

On the video they also discussed having sex with Kara and her sister and acknowledged that it would be statutory rape. About four hundred people attended the funeral of Michael and Kathy Borden.

The judge observed that the Supreme Court might one day extend the rule, but that day had not come.

The case

Murder of Michael and Kathy Borden

Victims

Michael Borden (50). church elder at the Plymouth Brethren church, Sunday school teacher and scientific publisher in Ephrata
Kathy Borden. his wife, a homemaker who homeschooled their children

Accused and outcomes

As told in the episode, on 18 April 2019.

Accused

Outcome

Other people

Catelyn Borden. Kara's sister, about 15, who saw the first shooting and hid in the bathroom
Kayla Jefferies. Kara's friend, who brought Kara's phone to the police
Samuel Larr. friend, who appeared with him in the night patrol video
Robert Bryer. Kara's attorney
Stephen Borden. Michael's older brother
Justin Borden. Michael and Kathy's eldest son
James Borden. Michael and Kathy's son
Catherine Hart. Michael's colleague at work

The timeline

  1. 1977 Michael Borden graduates from Northeast Missouri State University, the first in his family to earn a degree. (Northeast Missouri State University)about 0:39:00
  2. after college Michael moves to Mississippi, works for a publishing firm and marries his high school sweetheart Kathy.about 0:39:23
  3. spring of 1997 The Borden family moves into a new home in Warwick Township, just outside Lititz. (Borden home)about 0:45:18
  4. 2004 Michael gives his daughter Catelyn a diamond ring as a pledge to help her stay pure until she marries. (Borden home)about 1:23:02
  5. late winter, before the spring of 2005 takes a 16-year-old girlfriend to his family's hunting cabin without her parents' knowledge; both families handle it privately. (family hunting cabin)about 1:25:38
  6. 2005 Kara Borden, 14, meets 18-year-old through the homeschool social network.about 0:56:44
  7. the spring Kara and begin a secret relationship, messaging privately online.about 1:20:28
  8. the summer The relationship becomes physical; Kara sneaks out at night and parks around the corner to meet her.about 1:20:28
  9. November 12, 2005 asks the webmaster of his skateboarding blog to block it from searches for his name or Kara's.about 1:29:26
  10. November 12, 2005 Kara tells her parents she is sleeping over at a girlfriend's house. (Borden home)about 1:29:43
  11. 5:30 a.m., November 13, 2005 drops Kara home and she climbs in through her window, where her mother is waiting and confronts her. (Borden home)about 1:30:23
  12. 6 a.m., November 13, 2005 Texts arrive from ; Michael takes the phone and Kara says they are in love and plan to marry. (Borden home)about 1:32:25
  13. 6 a.m., November 13, 2005 Michael phones and tells him to come to the house. (Borden home)about 1:33:45
  14. 6 a.m., November 13, 2005 arrives with a handgun wrapped in a towel and leaves it on the porch when told to leave it outside. (Borden home)about 1:34:24
  15. 6 a.m., November 13, 2005 Michael lectures for about 45 minutes, then forbids him from ever seeing Kara again. (Borden home)about 1:35:40
  16. November 13, 2005 As leaves, he pulls a Glock and shoots Michael Borden once in the back of the head. (Borden home)about 1:36:41
  17. November 13, 2005 shoots Kathy Borden in the right side of the head as she sits in a chair by the sofa. (Borden home)about 1:37:34
  18. November 13, 2005 Catelyn runs into the bathroom; the nine-year-old brother slips out the back door and runs to a neighbour to call 911. (Borden home)about 1:39:20
  19. November 13, 2005 calmly drives off in his parents' red 1998 Volkswagen Jetta, and Kara runs after the car and gets in. (Borden home)about 1:38:43
  20. later that day Kayla Jefferies brings Kara's cell phone, found on the road leading to the interstate, to the Lititz Borough police; phone is also turned in. (Lititz Borough Police Department)about 1:43:31
  21. later that day An Amber Alert is issued and the FBI joins as police in Pennsylvania and Indiana watch for the red Jetta.about 1:44:26
  22. Monday morning, 24 hours later A vehicle matching the description is reported at a truck stop near Fort Wayne, Indiana, but it is gone when state troopers arrive. (truck stop near Fort Wayne)about 1:47:21
  23. Monday The Jetta is spotted on I-70 near Belleville, Indiana, and leads police on a five-mile chase at speeds of 95 miles an hour. (I-70 near Belleville)about 1:47:41
  24. Monday At a roadblock goes off the road into a ditch and hits a tree; Kara jumps out screaming not to hurt him. (I-70 near Belleville)about 1:48:31
  25. after the arrest Police find images of Kara on laptop and an 18-minute night patrol video, then find 54 guns and a hidden bunker at the home. ( home)about 2:02:10
  26. after the murders About 400 people attend the funeral of Michael and Kathy Borden, where Kara is described as composed and smiling.about 2:03:56
  27. after the diploma The state announces it will seek the death penalty.about 2:05:13

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