FILE 525 / 5 September 2024 / 171 MIN / full

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Ellington, ConnecticutListen

The town

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Ellington, Connecticut, in north central Connecticut, about a half hour to Hartford about 0:05:58

History, in brief

1812

Ellington is home to one of the oldest roadside memorials in the United States: a stone in the town's southwest corner marks where ten-year-old Samuel Knight was killed in 1812 by a cart wheel rolling over his head.

about 0:07:39

1967

On January 1st, 1967, with fog cutting visibility to 200 feet, state trooper Lionel Lebrache assembled dozens of residents and lined their cars along the town's unlit airstrip with headlights on so a pilot with engine trouble could land safely.

about 0:08:43

2004

Winterfest was established in 2004 and is held on the first weekend in December, with a tree lighting, holiday concert, torchlight parade and photos with Santa.

about 0:23:14
All 4 history facts

1812

Ellington is home to one of the oldest roadside memorials in the United States: a stone in the town's southwest corner marks where ten-year-old Samuel Knight was killed in 1812 by a cart wheel rolling over his head.

about 0:07:39

1967

On January 1st, 1967, with fog cutting visibility to 200 feet, state trooper Lionel Lebrache assembled dozens of residents and lined their cars along the town's unlit airstrip with headlights on so a pilot with engine trouble could land safely.

about 0:08:43

2004

Winterfest was established in 2004 and is held on the first weekend in December, with a tree lighting, holiday concert, torchlight parade and photos with Santa.

about 0:23:14

The figures, as told

Who lives here

White 87.9% · Black 1.6% · Asian 5.2% · Hispanic 3.9%

Ethnicity can overlap race.

Crime / national average

Property crime
▼ about half the national average

about 0:25:27

Violent crime
▼ about one quarter of the national average

about 0:25:31

Money

Median home value$348,000
Two-bedroom rent$1,610 a month
Median household income$109,545 a year
Cost of living105

For sale

$135,000

Three-bedroom, one-bath house listing

about 0:20:17

For sale

$800,000

Six-bedroom, four-bath house listing

about 0:21:37

For sale

$2,800,000

Four-bedroom, eight-bath house listing

about 0:22:29
All figures and comparisons, as told in 2024

Property crime

"about half the national average"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2024 about 0:25:27

Violent crime

"about one quarter of the national average"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2024 about 0:25:31

Average age

"40"

Comparison: "national average of 38.5". No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:17:07

Population

"16,339"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:17:26

Median age

"39.3"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:17:40

Married

"56%"

Comparison: "normally 50-50". No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:17:42

Single with children

"13%"

Comparison: "low". Direction: below.

As told in 2024 about 0:17:50

Unemployment rate

"a little higher than the national average"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: above.

As told in 2024 about 0:18:09

Median household income

"$109,545 a year"

Comparison: "normally about $69,000". No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:18:14

Cost of living

"105"

Comparison: "100 being average". Direction: above.

As told in 2024 about 0:18:31

Median home cost

"$348,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:18:40

Average two-bedroom rental

"$1,610 a month"

Comparison: "national average, usually 12 and change". No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:19:18

Three-bedroom, one-bath house listing

"$135,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:20:17

Six-bedroom, four-bath house listing

"$800,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:21:37

Four-bedroom, eight-bath house listing

"$2,800,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2024 about 0:22:29

The reviews

2.5 / 5 · average of 4

4 stars

“A lifelong resident calls it a nice little town with good schools, safe for families and a cute country-town vibe with farms and a farmers market at the park; the only complaint is that there is nothing to do.”
about 0:09:40

3 stars

“Ellington smells repugnant regularly because liquid manure is sprayed around the farms all year, with hot smelly zones between Ellington High School and the Main Street post office, even on some winter days.”
about 0:12:09

2 stars

“Boring and cliquish; town government does nothing besides suck you dry.”
about 0:14:51

1 star

“There is literally nothing to do here; the reviewer sits at home wondering how to meet new people and, as a college-age person, has very little opportunity to meet anyone their age.”
about 0:16:27

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The story

He was forty years old and worked as a computer network administrator. He told the dispatcher that his house had been broken into, that he was badly hurt and that his wife Connie had been shot. When police arrived they found him on the floor of the main level, partly bound with zip ties to a metal folding chair, blood on his legs. Connie, thirty-nine, was in the far corner of the basement, not moving, with bullet wounds to her stomach and the back of her head. She had been shot with a .357 revolver.

He said he got home around 8.45 to 9, heard a noise upstairs, thought one of the family cats had knocked something over, and found a bulky man about six foot two in camouflage and a black mask going through his wife's jewellery in the closet. The man, he said, had a voice like Vin Diesel and demanded money, credit cards and PIN numbers. He said he then heard the garage door open, assumed Connie had come home early from her exercise class at the Indian Valley YMCA, and shouted for her to run. Instead she ran to the basement. He said he heard a struggle and three gunshots from a .357 that he had bought two months earlier and kept in the basement. The intruder, he said, came back, tied him to a chair with zip ties, cut his legs with a box cutter and burned him with a blow torch. He then hit the panic alarm and called 911.

The details did not hold up. There was no forced entry. All the weapons used, the gun, the box cutter, the zip ties and the blow torch, came from inside the home. Three police dogs found no scent of an intruder, and no hospital or clinic within a hundred miles treated anyone for burns to the head. Neighbours saw no stranger, and none saw a man running away with his head on fire.

Connie Dabate had been born Connie Margata, graduated from Ellington High School in 1995 and from UConn in 1999, and worked as a pharmaceutical sales representative. She was a past vice president of the Ellington Volunteer Ambulance Corps and raised money for Boston Children's Hospital. They bought the four-bedroom colonial at Birchview Drive in 2006. Connie worried about his spending and in December 2014 wrote a note on her iPhone titled 'Why I Want a Divorce', listing his taking money from accounts that were not his, his lying about their marriage and his refusal to share his phone or computer, alongside nine things she liked about him.

Sarah Ganser was a high-school friend; the affair began in 2014 after her divorce, and by December 2015 she was pregnant. A second girlfriend was also discovered. Sarah believed he was divorcing Connie; the night before the killing he texted her that he and Connie had discussed divorce and were on the same page, signing off 'I'll see you tomorrow, my little love nugget'.

The digital record undid him. Connie wore a hip Fitbit. It showed her leaving for the YMCA at about 8.46, arriving at 8.53, and leaving again at 9.08 after finding the class cancelled. It went idle for the nine-minute drive and became active again at 9.23, the same minute the alarm recorded the garage door opening. Between 9.23 and 10.05 it recorded 1,217 feet of walking, about ten times the roughly 125 feet it would have registered if she had simply run in and gone down to the basement. At 9.04 the email to his boss was sent from his laptop at home, not from Reeves Road, where he said he had pulled over. At 9.18 he looked at the YMCA exercise schedule, two minutes before searching ESPN for Mike and Mike. The alarm was armed from his key fob at the house at 8.47, disarmed at 8.59, and the first door opened afterwards was the basement door, meaning whoever opened it was already inside.

Investigators also found that he had taken out a credit card without Connie's knowledge and used it for flowers for his girlfriend, more than $1,200 at a strip club and a stay at a nearby Motel 6. He had searched for poisons in July and September 2015, including deadly over-the-counter pill combinations, fast untraceable homemade poisons, antifreeze and ricin. In January 2016 he withdrew more than $90,000 from a Fidelity account belonging to Connie.

A wrongful death suit followed in December 2017.

Connie's mother, Cindy Margata, testified that on the morning of the murder Connie had called her, said Rick was a mess and that she wanted to see her therapist, and ended with 'I love you, mom, you're my best friend'.

He continues to maintain his innocence and is held at the McDougal Walker Correctional Institution in Suffield, Connecticut. The house at Birchview Drive was listed in 2019 for $399,000, reduced by $50,000, taken off the market and finally sold in May 2020 for $325,000.

The case

Murder of Connie Dabate

Victims

Connie Dabate (39). pharmaceutical sales representative, mother of two, past vice president of the Ellington Volunteer Ambulance Corps

Accused and outcomes

As told in the episode, on 5 September 2024.

Accused

Outcome

Other people

Keith. Connie's brother
Lori Spielman. Ellington first selectwoman
Hubert Santos. defence attorney
Daniel Iamateo. Connie's cousin
Mary Wheeler. Vernon resident who came to court to support the family
Darlene. friend and neighbour
Officer Sweeney. first officer into the home
Trooper son. state trooper and military veteran who entered the home

The timeline

  1. 1995 graduates from Manchester High School (Manchester High School)about 0:39:14
  2. 1995 Connie graduates from Ellington High School (Ellington High School)about 0:41:11
  3. 1999 Connie earns an undergraduate degree from UConn (University of Connecticut)about 0:41:19
  4. July 4th, 2003 and Connie marryabout 0:43:23
  5. 2006 Their son Jr, known as RJ, is bornabout 0:46:13
  6. 2006 They buy the house at Birchview Drive (Birchview Drive)about 2:41:52
  7. 2009 Their son Connor is bornabout 0:46:19
  8. 2014 begins an affair with high-school friend Sarah Ganser after her divorceabout 1:19:58
  9. December 2014 Connie writes an iPhone note titled 'Why I Want a Divorce' (Birchview Drive)about 1:43:52
  10. June 2015 consults a divorce attorney but does not retain himabout 1:33:52
  11. July and September 2015 searches online for poisons and deadly pill combinations (Birchview Drive)about 1:46:15
  12. October 2015 reports that his car was vandalised and tells Connie they need a gun (Birchview Drive)about 0:58:50
  13. October 2015 buys a Ruger .357 revolverabout 0:59:36
  14. late November 2015 Connie texts a lingerie photo saying 'I'm ready for you, big boy. Come find me' (Birchview Drive)about 0:59:50
  15. December 22nd, 2015 and Connie argue by text over the cable bill after he adds all the sports channels (Birchview Drive)about 1:01:07
  16. December 22nd, 2015 texts Sarah that he and Connie have discussed divorce and are on the same page, ending 'I'll see you tomorrow, my little love nugget'about 1:36:04
  17. December 23rd, 2015 Connie leaves for her spinning class at the Indian Valley YMCA at about 8.46 a.m. (Birchview Drive)about 1:18:25
  18. December 23rd, 2015 The home alarm is armed in stay mode from key fob at 8.47 a.m., while he claims to be driving to work (Birchview Drive)about 1:58:24
  19. December 23rd, 2015 Connie arrives at the YMCA at about 8.53 a.m. and finds her class cancelled (Indian Valley YMCA)about 1:48:10
  20. December 23rd, 2015 The alarm is disarmed from key fob at 8.59 a.m. (Birchview Drive)about 1:59:20
  21. December 23rd, 2015 The email telling his boss he will be late is sent from laptop at home at 9.04 a.m. (Birchview Drive)about 1:49:55
  22. December 23rd, 2015 Connie leaves the YMCA at about 9.08 a.m. (Indian Valley YMCA)about 1:48:10
  23. December 23rd, 2015 views the YMCA exercise schedule on his tablet at home at 9.18 a.m. (Birchview Drive)about 1:50:31
  24. December 23rd, 2015 Connie's Fitbit becomes active again at 9.23 a.m. as the alarm records the garage door opening (Birchview Drive)about 1:51:35
  25. December 23rd, 2015 Connie messages her psychotherapist asking for an appointment to be hypnotised, then posts two videos and messages a friend on Facebook (Birchview Drive)about 1:52:33
  26. December 23rd, 2015 Connie's Fitbit records her last movement inside the home at 10.05 a.m. (Birchview Drive)about 1:53:13
  27. December 23rd, 2015 The panic alarm is activated from key fob at 10.11 a.m. (Birchview Drive)about 1:57:24
  28. December 23rd, 2015 The alarm company calls 911 at 10.16 a.m.; calls 911 at about 10.20 a.m. (Birchview Drive)about 1:57:46
  29. December 23rd, 2015 Police find Connie shot dead in the basement and partly bound to a folding chair on the kitchen floor (Birchview Drive)about 0:28:48

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