FILE 649 / 20 November 2025 / 183 MIN / full

Murder For My Love

Lynchburg, VirginiaListen

The town

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James says they are going to Lynchburg, Virginia; the murder itself took place just outside Lynchburg in Boonsboro, which is in Bedford County. about 0:05:31

History, in brief

1757

First settled in 1757 and named for its founder, John Lynch.

about 0:06:57

Town note

When John Lynch was 17 he started a ferry service at a ford across the James River, carrying traffic to and from New London where his parents had settled.

about 0:07:16

Town note

The city developed around the ferry, because once there was a way back and forth people began going places.

about 0:07:38

1786

In 1786 Lynchburg was recognised as a town by the General Assembly.

about 0:07:46
All 5 history facts

1757

First settled in 1757 and named for its founder, John Lynch.

about 0:06:57

Town note

When John Lynch was 17 he started a ferry service at a ford across the James River, carrying traffic to and from New London where his parents had settled.

about 0:07:16

Town note

The city developed around the ferry, because once there was a way back and forth people began going places.

about 0:07:38

1786

In 1786 Lynchburg was recognised as a town by the General Assembly.

about 0:07:46

Town note

Lynchburg is an independent city, not in a county; its area code is 434 and it is nicknamed the City of Seven Hills and the Hill City.

about 0:06:43

The figures, as told

Religious

45.7%

about 0:11:32

Who lives here

White 62.7% · Black 28.3% · Asian 2.7% · Hispanic 3.7%

Ethnicity can overlap race.

Crime / national average

Property crime
exactly average

about 0:20:58

Violent crime
▼ a little lower than average

about 0:21:01

Money

Median home value$221,800
Two-bedroom rent$1,070
Median household income$54,015 a year
Cost of living80.9
All figures and comparisons, as told in 2025

Population

"78,973"

No direction stated.

As told in 2025 about 0:10:50

Median age

"28.6"

No direction stated.

As told in 2025 about 0:11:14

Single with children

"21%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2025 about 0:11:25

Religious

"45.7%"

Comparison: "50-50 is the national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2025 about 0:11:32

Median household income

"$54,015 a year"

Comparison: "about 15,000 under the national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2025 about 0:12:13

Cost of living

"80.9"

Comparison: "100 is average". Direction: below.

As told in 2025 about 0:12:30

Median home cost

"$221,800"

Comparison: "less than the national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2025 about 0:12:43

Average two-bedroom rent

"$1,070"

Comparison: "below the national average by a couple hundred bucks". Direction: below.

As told in 2025 about 0:13:13

Listing price

"$23,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2025 about 0:14:49

Listing price

"$1,750,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2025 about 0:15:56

Property crime

"exactly average"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: about the same.

As told in 2025 about 0:20:58

Violent crime

"a little lower than average"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2025 about 0:21:01

The reviews

3.0 / 5 · average of 4

5 stars

“A nice place, surrounded by the Blue Ridge Mountains and close to bigger cities, with Liberty University, Lynchburg University, Randolph College and Central Virginia Community College in town.”
about 0:08:02

3 stars

“There are cute and sweet little spots, but the violence is ever increasing; it has the opportunity to become an amazing city but at this time it is not.”
about 0:08:51

2 stars

“Too rural, almost nothing to do, everything is about Liberty University, no food variety at all, and almost no children's playgrounds, only three and they are lame.”
about 0:09:18

2 stars

“The reviewer moved from New Jersey, is homesick, has lived there a year, had a motorcycle stolen and saw the church next to the house broken into five times.”
about 0:10:29

In Virginia

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The story

In the 1950s, after both had divorced, he met Nancy Aster Benedict in Johannesburg. Nancy had been born in Jerome, Arizona, on 12 July 1932 and was the goddaughter of Lady Astor, the first woman to sit in the British Parliament. They married and had five children between them.

She had eating disorders, cut herself and claimed she had been sexually abused as a child, later naming her mother. She was sent to boarding schools in Britain, including Wycombe Abbey outside London, and her parents pushed her towards engineering although she wanted to study history. She repeated her senior year after failing to meet the required standards, failed interviews at Trinity College and Cambridge and ran away through Europe with another girl, taking drugs, before returning to America and being accepted at the University of Virginia as an Echols scholar.

He spoke English, German, French and Thai, and came to the University of Virginia on a Jefferson scholarship. He was infatuated at once. Both kept diaries and wrote each other letters. She showed him nude photographs which she said her father had taken, practised voodoo in their dormitory and spoke of cursing her parents to death.

They threatened to cut off her tuition if she kept seeing him, which only drew the couple closer. The letters grew more explicit.

On 31 March they checked out, shopped in Georgetown, bought matching sweaters at Benetton, had a late lunch at a French restaurant and returned to Charlottesville for a party. On 1 April they went to classes as normal.

On 3 April three women arrived at the Hasem house at Holcomb Rock Road, Boonsboro, for a bridge party. The porch light was on, the door was locked and there was no answer. They called the neighbour Annie Massy, who had a spare key. She found the mail and newspapers piling up, smelled something dreadful at the door and called the police.

Derek was in the living room, his head against the fireplace, stabbed 36 times with his throat cut almost to severing; he had defensive wounds on his hands. Nancy was in the dining room, sitting at the table with tea and snacks set out, her throat cut and her body stabbed. Reports differed over whether she was at the table or in the kitchen. The house was covered in blood, there was no forced entry, and Nancy's wedding ring and sapphire necklace and Derek's wallet were missing. A bloody sock print of a man's size eight and a half was on the floor and tyre tracks outside did not match the family cars. Four blood types were found: the victims' A and AB, B on a damp rag and the screen door, and O in the master suite. Both victims had blood alcohol levels over 0.22.

Bedford County investigators Chuck Reed and Ricky Gardner, Sheriff C. H. Wells and lab technician Jeffrey Brown worked the scene. Richmond detectives called in to look for cult activity produced a satanic theory involving the northward alignment of the bodies and a mousetrap, but concluded that any ritual was the work of amateurs.

The Washington alibi looked perfect, which bothered Gardner. On 20 April both were interrogated. When told about the letters she said they were writing a novel together; asked whether both of them had been in Washington, she paused and asked for a lawyer.

They had emptied their bank accounts and left a note saying they were innocent but no one believed them. They drove a Fiat towards Thailand, crashed in Bulgaria, flew to Bangkok, obtained false papers, travelled to Singapore and Moscow, and reached Canterbury, where they lived as Tim and Julia Holt, two Canadian students at the University of Kent.

On 29 May Gardner and the county prosecutor James Updike flew to London. He later claimed diplomatic immunity through his father, which delayed matters for months. On 7 July 1989 the European Court of Human Rights ruled that the threat of the death penalty amounted to inhuman treatment, and Virginia reluctantly agreed to drop it. He was extradited in 1990.

He was held at Southampton Reception and Classification Center, then Mecklenburg in 1991 and Keene Mountain in 1994, and later at Wallens Ridge. He wrote several books, including Mortal Thoughts in 1995, became a Catholic at Easter 2002 and maintained his innocence. New DNA evidence in 2009 showed unknown male blood at the scene.

A governor's review in 2019 was inconclusive. Documentaries in 2016, 2017, 2019 and a four-part Netflix series in 2023 argued his case, and supporters include Martin Sheen, Jason Flom and Angela Merkel.

The case

Murder of Derek and Nancy Hasem

Victims

Derek William Reginald Hasem (72). Retired steel executive, born in South Africa, president of Sydney Steel and Metropolitan Area Growth Investments.
Nancy Aster Benedict Hasem (52). Artist, born in Jerome, Arizona, goddaughter of Lady Astor, wife of Derek.

Accused and outcomes

As told in the episode, on 20 November 2025.

Accused

Accused

Outcome

Other people

Annie Massy. neighbour with the spare key who found the smell and called the police
Chuck Reed. Bedford County investigator
Ricky Gardner. Bedford County investigator, working his first homicide
Sheriff C. H. Wells. Bedford County sheriff who led the investigation
Sergeant Jeffrey Brown. lab technician who examined the bodies
Christine. roommate, who gave the letters to the police
Kenneth Beaver. Detective Inspector with the British police who questioned them in London
James Updike. Bedford County prosecutor who flew to London
Julian Hasem. older half-brother
Howard Hasem. half-brother, a doctor in Houston, who found them gone
Hans Mueller. friend, who said he sold everything for cash
Tony Marin Buchanan. transmission shop proprietor who reported a bloodstained car
Melinda Duncan. girl who travelled Europe with
Jim Farmer. the man behind the 'Jack' pseudonym, an alleged Charlottesville drug dealer
Lady Astor. Nancy's godmother, the first woman to serve in the British Parliament

The timeline

  1. July 12th, 1932 Nancy Aster Benedict is born in Jerome, Arizona. (Jerome, Arizona)about 0:34:40
  2. the 1950s Derek and Nancy meet in Johannesburg; both have just divorced. (Johannesburg)about 0:34:54
  3. 1964 Their daughter Roxanne is born in Rhodesia. (Rhodesia)about 0:36:00
  4. August 1st, 1966 is born in Bangkok, Thailand. (Bangkok)about 0:53:20
  5. August 1984 and meet on the first day of college at the University of Virginia. (University of Virginia)about 0:51:36
  6. October 12th, 1984 writes to that he would kill for her.about 1:01:30
  7. October 13th, 1984 replies, asking whether he really would and telling him to prove her parents wrong.about 1:02:13
  8. November 5th, 1984 writes that she has the same dreams of killing her parents and that in hers they do it together.about 1:03:25
  9. December 1984 A dinner with Nancy and Derek goes wrong: Derek calls a fucking Nazi and Nancy throws a drink in face. (Loose Chippings)about 1:07:28
  10. January 1985 returns to Virginia and he and visit Loose Chippings while her parents are out. (Loose Chippings)about 1:11:30
  11. February 14th, 1985 writes that he will end her parents and make it look like a robbery.about 2:02:21
  12. February 20th, 1985 diary says is willing but weak and that his tears mean he is almost ready.about 1:15:07
  13. March 1st, 1985 diary says he knows what needs to happen and that he is not afraid any more.about 1:15:29
  14. March 10th, 1985 writes that the spirits have spoken and fixes the date as March 30th, when they will be in Washington.about 1:17:54
  15. March 23rd and 24th, 1985 visits her parents for her father's birthday and they drive her back to Charlottesville. (Loose Chippings)about 1:41:31
  16. March 29th, 1985 They rent a grey Chevrolet Chevette, drive to Washington, D.C., book room 427 at a Georgetown hotel and spend the evening at the cinema and hotel bar. (Georgetown hotel)about 1:21:53
  17. March 30th, 1985 Derek and Nancy Hasem are murdered at home, between about 8 and 8.45 p.m. (Loose Chippings)about 2:07:53

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