FILE 745 / 22 October 2026 / 184 MIN / full

The Charming Susan Strangler

Demarest, New JerseyListen

The town

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We're going to Demarest, New Jersey this week... this is in Bergen County, area code 201. about 0:05:01

History, in brief

Town note

John Demarest's wool mill later became an optical company and then a piano factory.

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1903

In 1903 the borough of Demarest was formed after separating from Harrington Township.

about 0:06:54

Town note

The Methodists met in a bowling alley until it burned down.

about 0:07:14
All 5 history facts

Town note

John Demarest's wool mill later became an optical company and then a piano factory.

about 0:06:24

1903

In 1903 the borough of Demarest was formed after separating from Harrington Township.

about 0:06:54

Town note

The Methodists met in a bowling alley until it burned down.

about 0:07:14

Town note

Camp Merritt was built in Cresskill and Dumont during the First World War and troops were quartered in tents on the Demarest race track, where the high school now stands.

about 0:07:30

The figures, as told

Religious

65%

Biggest faith: Catholic, 49.6%

about 0:12:06

Who lives here

White 56.9% · Black 30% · Asian 32.6% · Hispanic 7.9%

Ethnicity can overlap race.

Crime / national average

Property crime
▼ less than one third

about 0:19:41

Violent crime
▼ about one quarter

about 0:19:55

Money

Median home value$964,500
Median household income$191,346
Cost of living141

For sale

7,829 square feet

Six-bedroom eight-bath house

about 0:15:04

For sale

$4,500,000

Asking price of the six-bedroom house

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All figures and comparisons, as told in 2026

Population

"4,977"

No direction stated.

As told in 2026 about 0:10:05

Women

"49%"

Comparison: "more men than women". No direction stated.

As told in 2026 about 0:10:18

Married

"76%"

Comparison: "50-50 is the normal for the rest of the country". No direction stated.

As told in 2026 about 0:10:42

Single with children

"1.4%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2026 about 0:11:36

Religious

"65%"

Comparison: "normally it's 50-50". Direction: above.

As told in 2026 about 0:12:06

Median household income

"$191,346"

Comparison: "about $69,000 for the rest of the country". No direction stated.

As told in 2026 about 0:12:55

Cost of living

"141"

Comparison: "100 is regular average". Direction: above.

As told in 2026 about 0:13:08

Median home cost

"$964,500"

No direction stated.

As told in 2026 about 0:13:14

Three-bedroom one-bath house

"$849,000"

Comparison: "the cheapest house in the area". No direction stated.

As told in 2026 about 0:14:09

Price cut on the cheapest house

"$26,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2026 about 0:14:15

Three-bedroom one-and-a-half-bath teardown

"$1,199,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2026 about 0:14:49

Six-bedroom eight-bath house

"7,829 square feet"

No direction stated.

As told in 2026 about 0:15:04

Asking price of the six-bedroom house

"$4,500,000"

No direction stated.

As told in 2026 about 0:15:17

Property crime

"less than one third"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2026 about 0:19:41

Violent crime

"about one quarter"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2026 about 0:19:55

The reviews

4.0 / 5 · average of 3

5 stars

“A really quiet place with very friendly neighbours and community members; an extremely small town with a downtown gazebo where free concerts and events are held over the summer; few shops but a few minutes' drive to neighbouring towns and less than an hour from Manhattan; the schools are above average.”
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4 stars

“The crime is not very bad in my town.”
about 0:08:56

3 stars

“An all right town with decent schools, genuinely nice and friendly people and a nature centre, but known as one of the safest towns in New Jersey for a reason, and perhaps too safe.”
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The story

His parents ran a busy luncheonette called the Sweet Sue Coffee Shop near Fifth Avenue in Manhattan, and the episode suggests they worked long hours and left him largely unsupervised. A sister, Susan, was born in 1943 and caught polio as a child, so much of the family's attention went to her. In 1951 the family moved from New York to Fort Lee, New Jersey, and later to Closter.

The great influence on his life was his mother's sister, Lillian Booth. Lillian had waited tables at the family's coffee shop when a wealthy older customer, Ferris Booth, fell in love with her. They married in the mid-1940s, he died of a stroke in 1956, and she inherited about $50 million. She had no children and lavished money on her nieces and nephews; Bobby was her favourite. She paid for his holidays, his cars and, again and again, his lawyers. By 2007 she was worth almost $250 million after giving hundreds of millions to hospitals, churches and charities.

His record began in January 1957, when at sixteen he grabbed a woman by the throat outside her apartment building in New York and stole her purse. Later that year he committed a series of house burglaries, was put on indefinite probation and was examined at Menlow Park Hospital, where doctors found a narcissistic character disorder and strong repressed hostility towards women.

A month later, on 25 February 1962, he and an accomplice broke into a house in Fort Lee at 3.20 in the morning. The parents were away; inside were a fourteen-year-old girl, her older sister and a three-year-old nephew.

Within months he was seeing several women at once, among them Beverly Moles, a bank teller, and Judy Rosenberg, a married woman he met at a hotel swimming pool in Florida in February 1967.

On 27 April 1967 a Teaneck housewife, Bernice Caplin, came home at about 3.10 in the afternoon. She let him in. He walked towards the front door, then spun round and put his forearm round her throat, told her not to scream, demanded money, forced her against a wall and raped her, keeping his hand on her throat throughout. When she asked why, he said he was crazy. He told her that if her son came through the door he would kill him and that he had a gun. Then he left. A fourteen-year-old boy named Kenneth Strickland had noticed the green convertible at the kerb and two distinctive decals on its rear. On 29 April Mrs Caplin picked him out at police headquarters and then identified the car in the car park.

At Rawway he became the star of the sex offender treatment unit. She escaped and a patrolman found him in an ice cream shop, where he had hidden a blue-handled throwing knife.

He worked as a house painter and ran a small construction and sandblasting business, and he drove a dark red Opel station wagon.

On 6 October 1975 Susan Haines, a midwife from Gloucester, England, was at home in Haworth while her husband Jonathan was at work. He telephoned at about one o'clock and she was cheerful; at 5.50 p.m. he came home to an empty, locked house, her keys in the car, a parcel for her mother on the passenger seat and her pottery-class clothes laid out on the bed. A neighbour, Dorothy Slater, had spoken to her in the garden at about 3.30 p.m.; another neighbour later recalled a red Opel station wagon in the driveway. Police searched for days with dogs, hundreds of volunteers and even a psychic, and they cleared Jonathan after he passed a polygraph.

On 14 October 1975 Susan Reeve, twenty-two, a receptionist at Grey Advertising in Manhattan and the daughter of a former municipal judge, got off the commuter bus at Country Road and Anderson Avenue in Demarest at about 6.10 p.m., a quarter of a mile from her parents' house. A driver saw her talking to a man beside a dark red station wagon and thought the exchange looked odd. She never came home. At about 7.30 that evening a toll collector on the George Washington Bridge heard a woman's voice screaming from the back of a dark red station wagon: help me, he's crazy.

On 20 October a man sold a distinctive engagement ring at Macy's, then made a scene two days later when he came back for it and bought it back for $100. On 27 October a dog walker found Susan Haines's body in woods near a reservoir in Valley Cottage, New York, face down under branches, strangled with pantyhose tightened with a stick. The next day park workers checking a chlorine pipe found Susan Reeve's body in the water at Tallman State Park in Piermont, also strangled with pantyhose, her arm sticking up. Both women had fractured hyoid bones. Tracking dogs found Susan Reeve's scent and blood of her type in his aunt's vacant house in Closter, and hairs matching both victims were found in his station wagon.

By then he had already asked fellow inmates to find a hitman to kill his aunt and her companion, Misha Dabich, so that he could inherit money and pay for a better lawyer. In October 1979 he sprayed a guard, escaped from the courthouse, broke both ankles jumping from a window and was caught after a carjacking near Tuxedo, New York.

Lillian Booth died on 22 November 2007 at ninety-two, leaving him income from an $8.9 million trust; his mother's share added about $8 million more. In 2010 the Reeve family settled a civil suit for about $10 million and gave the money away. Susan Haines was buried in the churchyard in Warwickshire where she had married.

The case

The Susan Strangulations: the murders of Susan Reeve and Susan Haines

Victims

Susan Reeve (22). Receptionist at Grey Advertising in Manhattan, lived with her parents in Demarest and was engaged to Daniel Olmsted.
Susan Johnstone Haines. Midwife from Gloucester, England, born July 23, 1947, married to Jonathan Haines and living in Haworth, New Jersey.

Accused and outcomes

As told in the episode, on 22 October 2026.

Accused

Outcome

Other people

Jonathan Haines. Susan Haines's husband, who reported her missing
Arthur Reeve. Susan Reeve's father, a lawyer and former municipal judge
Barbara Reeve. Susan Reeve's mother
Daniel Olmsted. Susan Reeve's fiance, a Columbia graduate student
Bernice Caplin. Teaneck housewife raped by in 1967
Lillian Booth. great-aunt and benefactor
Misha Dabich. Lillian Booth's companion
Sherry Ann Stevens. supporter who was caught with a shotgun at the hospital
Eileen Dalton. toll collector who heard a woman screaming in the station wagon
Kenneth Strickland. 14-year-old who noted the green convertible and its decals
Nicholas Gallo. Bergen County detective who posed as a hitman

The timeline

  1. June 2nd, 1940 Ronald Nadler is born in Brooklyn, the first child of William and Marie Nadler. (Brooklyn, New York)about 0:30:44
  2. 1943 His sister Susan is born; she later contracts polio.about 0:31:44
  3. 1951 The family moves from New York to Fort Lee, New Jersey. (Fort Lee, New Jersey)about 0:33:24
  4. 1956 His aunt's husband Ferris Booth dies of a stroke and Lillian inherits about $50 million.about 0:37:05
  5. January 11th, 1957 At sixteen he grabs a woman by the throat outside her apartment building in New York and steals her purse. (New York, New York)about 0:42:26
  6. October 1957 He commits a series of house burglaries, is put on indefinite probation and is examined at Menlow Park Hospital, where doctors find a narcissistic character disorder and strong repressed hostility toward women. (Menlow Park Hospital)about 0:43:51
  7. February 1967 He meets Judy Rosenberg at a hotel swimming pool in Florida during a family holiday.about 1:08:34
  8. April 27th, 1967 He talks his way into Bernice Caplin's house in Teaneck and rapes her, holding her by the throat. (Bernice Caplin's house)about 1:11:35
  9. April 29th, 1967 Bernice Caplin identifies him at police headquarters and then identifies his green convertible in the car park.about 1:17:22
  10. March 16th, 1971 After visiting the hospitalised William Prendergast, he puts a knife to a woman's throat in the garage of her Metuchen apartment complex; she escapes and he is caught in an ice cream shop. (Metuchen apartment complex)about 1:34:57
  11. June 17th, 1975 He marries Judy Rosenberg and they move into an apartment on Central Avenue in Tenafly with her twelve-year-old son Eddie. (Tenafly apartment)about 1:42:10
  12. October 6th, 1975 Susan Haines disappears from her locked house in Haworth; a neighbour had spoken to her at about 3.30 p.m. and another later recalled a red Opel station wagon in the driveway. (Haines house)about 1:45:35

Conspiracy to murder Lillian Booth

Victims

Lillian Booth (in her early 60s). great-aunt and benefactor, the intended victim; she was not harmed.
Misha Dabich. Lillian Booth's companion, the second intended target.

Accused and outcomes

As told in the episode, on 22 October 2026.

Accused

Outcome

Other people

Nicholas Gallo. detective who posed as the hitman Frank Perezy

The timeline

  1. March 1977 describes the house on a wooded street in Alpine, asks for a knife across the throat and offers $100,000 to $150,000. (Lillian Booth's estate)about 2:23:08
  2. March 15th, 1977 He writes two letters describing progress with his lawyers and with the plan. (Trenton State Prison)about 2:32:07
  3. March 18th, 1977 Authorities tap his wife Judy's telephone.about 2:32:25
  4. 1977 Lillian Booth sits behind him in court, keeps him in her will and says she does not believe he would hurt her.about 2:34:00

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