FILE 251 / 25 November 2021 / 165 MIN / full

The Nightmare House

Fair Lawn, New JerseyListen

The town

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We're going to go there, too. We're going to Fairlawn, New Jersey... Bergen County, it's in area code 201. about 0:05:46

History, in brief

Town note

The first settlers were members of the Lenape tribe, a peaceful hunting and gathering people who sold the land to Dutch and Irish settlers and then moved to Pennsylvania.

about 0:09:13

Town note

The area was divided into farm lots with two main roads through them.

about 0:09:38

Town note

It was named Sluder Dam, after a V-shaped sluice-like shipping weir built in the Passaic River.

about 0:09:50

1791

Nobody would move there because the name was so off-putting, so in 1791 the land was broken into smaller lots with new roads and houses.

about 0:10:43
All 11 history facts

Town note

The first settlers were members of the Lenape tribe, a peaceful hunting and gathering people who sold the land to Dutch and Irish settlers and then moved to Pennsylvania.

about 0:09:13

Town note

The area was divided into farm lots with two main roads through them.

about 0:09:38

Town note

It was named Sluder Dam, after a V-shaped sluice-like shipping weir built in the Passaic River.

about 0:09:50

1791

Nobody would move there because the name was so off-putting, so in 1791 the land was broken into smaller lots with new roads and houses.

about 0:10:43

1861

There were 80 houses by 1861, and the town was renamed Small Lots.

about 0:10:59

Town note

It was part of Saddle River Township, an agricultural community of vegetable farms, fruit farms and dairy interests.

about 0:11:33

Town note

Some farm owners built bigger homes as the community prospered.

about 0:11:43

Town note

The town eventually took the name Fair Lawn from somebody's estate, the nicest house in town.

about 0:11:52

1982

In 1982 a New Jersey Transit train ran off the end of an industrial rail siding and crashed into a pasta factory, killing the engineer; the lead car travelled 60 feet into the building.

about 0:12:32

Town note

Five teenagers had tampered with the tracks; two of them were charged and convicted of manslaughter and given five-year sentences.

about 0:15:04

Town note

The town was traditionally a centre of Jewish culture, with many Russian and Orthodox Jews, and a large Italian population.

about 0:15:17

The figures, as told

Religious

65%

Biggest faith: Catholic residents, 50%

about 0:20:25

Who lives here

White 71% · Black 1.1% · Asian 13.1% · Hispanic 13.7%

Ethnicity can overlap race.

Crime / national average

Property crime
▼ about one-third under the national average

about 0:27:25

Violent crime
▲ more than two-thirds under the national average

about 0:27:38

Money

Median home value$493,600
Two-bedroom rent$1,613

For sale

$789,000

New four-bedroom, two-and-a-half-bath home

about 0:24:33
All figures and comparisons, as told in 2021

Property crime

"about one-third under the national average"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: below.

As told in 2021 about 0:27:25

Violent crime

"more than two-thirds under the national average"

Comparison: "national average". Direction: above.

As told in 2021 about 0:27:38

Population

"32,877"

No direction stated.

As told in 2021 about 0:19:18

Italian residents in 2000

"20% of the population"

Comparison: "about 5.5% of the population nationally". No direction stated.

As told in 2021 about 0:15:31

Married residents

"60%"

Comparison: "higher than average". Direction: above.

As told in 2021 about 0:19:45

Divorce rate

"about half the normal rate"

Comparison: "normal divorce rate". Direction: below.

As told in 2021 about 0:19:50

White residents

"71%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2021 about 0:20:02

Black residents

"1.1%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2021 about 0:20:02

Asian residents

"13.1%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2021 about 0:20:13

Hispanic residents

"13.7%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2021 about 0:20:18

Average household income

"$109,747"

Comparison: "$57,500 national average". No direction stated.

As told in 2021 about 0:21:23

Residents earning $100,000 to $150,000

"22%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2021 about 0:21:46

Cost of living

"$138,000"

Comparison: "$100,000 is the regular average". No direction stated.

As told in 2021 about 0:21:58

Vote for the Democrat in the last election in Bergen County

"57%"

Comparison: "41% Republican, 1.5% Independent". No direction stated.

As told in 2021 about 0:21:07

Religious residents

"65%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2021 about 0:20:25

Catholic residents

"50%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2021 about 0:20:31

Jewish residents

"4.3%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2021 about 0:20:47

Average two-bedroom rent

"$1,613"

Comparison: "about $400 above the national average". Direction: above.

As told in 2021 about 0:22:44

Median home cost

"$493,600"

Comparison: "about $291,000 for the rest of the country". No direction stated.

As told in 2021 about 0:22:11

Homes valued between $500,000 and $750,000

"50%"

No direction stated.

As told in 2021 about 0:22:16

Three-bedroom, one-bath home

"$395,000"

Comparison: "1,328 square feet". No direction stated.

As told in 2021 about 0:23:21

Four-bedroom, two-bath home

"$569,900"

Comparison: "7,139-square-foot lot". No direction stated.

As told in 2021 about 0:24:01

New four-bedroom, two-and-a-half-bath home

"$789,000"

Comparison: "2,371 square feet". No direction stated.

As told in 2021 about 0:24:33

The reviews

3.3 / 5 · average of 4

“The headline called Fair Lawn an unpretentious place that smells like cookies.”
about 0:16:08

5 stars

“They came to Fair Lawn in middle school, graduated from the high school, have lived in many towns and this one is their favourite, with plenty to do and everything close.”
about 0:16:42

4 stars

“A solid middle-class town that punches above its weight, good value for tax, unpretentious, excellent schools, many town services, diverse, family-friendly and very safe.”
about 0:17:10

2 stars

“Moved out mostly because of the taxes, crime and overdevelopment; it stopped feeling like a small town.”
about 0:18:37

2 stars

“Homes and taxes are overpriced, schools are better than average, and the locals who grew up there and stayed are awful, cliquish and exclusionary.”
about 0:18:53

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The story

Fair Lawn is a borough of about 32,900 people in Bergen County, in north-eastern New Jersey, roughly 35 minutes from New York City. James describes it as an affluent commuter town that began as Lenape land sold to Dutch and Irish settlers, was farmed in small lots, and eventually took its name from a grand estate. By the 1980s it was a quiet, largely Catholic, heavily Italian-American town where the volunteer fire chief was a local celebrity.

The story begins with that fire chief. His wife was Phyllis Ruth Jacobus, 37, who had recently been diagnosed with diabetes and had come home from hospital after serious injuries in several car crashes.

On 14 March 1973, in the house at Pomona Avenue, the couple argued. Then he telephoned the police and said he had just killed his wife and was going to kill himself. He was taken to hospital in a critical condition, had emergency surgery and was arraigned at his bedside. A note said his wife had told him she was going to leave him, though friends blamed stress over her medical condition.

The episode stresses that the town did not shun him. He went back to work, and in 1982 he married Ruth Jacobus, a deaf and mute woman he met at the Easter Seal Community Center in Hackensack, where he worked as maintenance foreman.

He said she then stabbed her mother in the back, handed him a larger knife and said that if he loved her he would do it. She asked him to kick in the back door so it looked like a burglary. They drove to Teaneck to meet friends and establish an alibi, came back, and then went to the neighbour's house to report the death.

The neighbour was James W. McCauley, a retired police officer. The two teenagers pounded on his door at about 9.45 p.m. saying Ruth was dead. He went next door, saw the ransacked house and the broken back door, and told the children to call the police. Officers found Ruth between the kitchen and living room, her skull bashed in about five times with a hammer and two knives, a butcher knife and a paring knife, left in her back. She had bled to death from a severed pulmonary artery; one blade had sliced her liver. The scene looked staged, because the mess was not the kind a burglar makes.

A neighbour told police it had happened again, that it was a house of tragedy, and the 1973 killing came back.

She said the argument was over telephone bills, that her mother threw things at her and followed her into the bedroom, and that she turned around to see Eddie's hand and her mother falling.

The judge kept her bail at $25,000 and let her live with her father.

Her bank balance had fallen from $49,500 to $16,000.

The case

Murder of Phyllis Jacobus

Victims

Phyllis Ruth Jacobus (37). wife, recently diagnosed with diabetes and recovering from injuries in several car accidents

Accused and outcomes

As told in the episode, on 25 November 2021.

Accused

Outcome

Other people

Russell Jacobus. his eight-year-old son, taken in by his grandparents across the street
Phyllis's mother. later fought the inheritance that passed to Ruth

The timeline

  1. serves 20 years in the Fair Lawn Volunteer Fire Department and becomes chief while working as an electrician (Fair Lawn Volunteer Fire Department)about 0:51:16
  2. March 14, 1973 and Phyllis argue and he stabs her four times with a serrated steak knife, twice in the left ventricle of the heart (Jacobus house)about 0:52:55
  3. March 14, 1973 telephones police and says he has just killed his wife and is going to kill himself (Jacobus house)about 0:53:17
  4. March 14, 1973 Police find Phyllis dead and slumped on the bed with three deep stab wounds to his abdomen; he is taken to hospital in a critical condition (Jacobus house)about 0:53:36

Murder of Ruth Jacobus

Victims

Ruth Jacobus (48). deaf and mute mother of , who worked at the Easter Seal Community Center; widow of

Accused and outcomes

As told in the episode, on 25 November 2021.

Accused

Accused

Outcome

Other people

James W. McCauley. next-door neighbour, a retired police officer, who was told Ruth was dead and called police
Robert Gallantucci. defence lawyer
Roger Cain. senior investigator with the Bergen County Prosecutor's Office

The timeline

  1. December 1983 dies of liver disease and Ruth stays on in the house with her youngest daughter (Jacobus house)about 1:07:59

Last meals

  • Ruth Jacobus. Thanksgiving dinner, her second of the day, eaten at home with and the meal eaten shortly before she was killed, November 22nd, 1984about 1:10:25

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